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Happy 1st Birthday Adief Shafiy

2010-04-20T12:42:00.004+08:00

Happy Birthday to my beloved son Adief Shafiy...pejam celik pejam celik dah setahun dah adief...how time flies....anyway, just wanna wish you Happy Birthday!Be a good son and brother..love u so much...jangan notty notty!!muahhhhhhh

Adief : 11 months old

2010-03-24T12:03:00.004+08:00

Salam u all...

rasa macam nak kena sinus je bila masuk blog ni...hehehe...hari ni i nak update pasal adief...20hb yang lepas, genap adief 11 bulan...oo my goshhh...next month dah setahun...dah tak baby dah adief...kejapnye masa berlalu....sedih pulak bila tengok cepat betul anak-anak membesar....tapi nak buat camne kan...

progress adief memang dah banyak sangat...dah pandai nak berdiri sambil pegang-pegang kerusi or apa-apa la yang dia boleh capai...then dah berani nak lepas-lepas tangan sebelah...but belum boleh jalan lagi...bab aktif memang tak boleh nak cakap apa la...aktif sangat...badan pun dah susut tak macam sofea sampai sekarang still tak hilang-hilang baby fat dia...hehhee...lagi pandai tunjuk perasaan...suka sangat lentik-lentik kan badan dia kalau marah...garang adief ni...nak pakai kan diaper and baju pun dah susah...kalau nak dengar suara nyaring mommy keluar time nak pakaikan baju dia la....gerammm sangat...

gigi adief dah ada 6 batang...4 atas n 2 bawah...rasanya dah faham sikit-sikit apa orang cakap...suka tepuk tangan....pastu dah pandai gaduh dengan kakak sofea....tapi yang paling i rasa syahdu tengok bila tengok adief bergolek-golek dengan sofea...ala ala macam anak kucing bergurau...adief kalau nampak sofea baring mesti dia sondol kakak dia macam nak manja-manja...memang sejuk sangat hati...hilang semua penat lelah...seriously, it's worth it...sometimes memang ada masa yang rasa exhausted, rasa tak freedom, rasa nak nangis, rasa tak cukup tidur, rasa fedup but bila tengok anak-anak senyum, ketawa, happy, tidur; hilang semua rasa-rasa yang tak best tu....memang anak-anak tu satu anugerah Allah yang paling berharga....i can't explain the feeling...rasanya mommies out there faham la kan...pada yang belum mendapat rezeki lagi, insyaAllah satu hari nanti Allah akan kurniakan rezeki tak ternilai tu...apa yang penting setiap kejadian pasti ada hikmahnya...trust me!!

oklah my dear friends...need to stop now...talk to u later...hopefully soon...hehehe...bye..

p/s: kualiti gambar kurang memuaskan due to pakai hp and adief yang semakin lasak tak boleh duduk diam...

Adief : 10 months old

2010-03-04T10:54:00.004+08:00

my little tigerrrr....arrrr...

Salam semua....wah...memang berhabukk terus blog ni...tak sempat nak update pasal adief..

Masa 20hb Feb tu genap la adief 10 bulan...macam-macam dah budak kecik ni punya progress..sekejap je masa berlalu...in 2 months time, he will turn ONE...dah tak baby la adief...bau baby pun dah hilang...sekarang bau masyammm + bacinnn macam kakak sofea..

Progress adief memang dah banyak compared to last month...adief dah boleh duduk betul..suka nak berdiri...mana-mana tempat yang dia boleh berpaut memang dia suka la especially kerusi makan...then dah boleh lepas tangan sebelah...merangkak pulak memang laju sangat...kalau dengar orang panggil Adief Shafiy mesti dia datang eventhough kita panggil dari bilik lain...tau tau je dah muncul budak busyukkk ni...

In term of emotion pulak, memang dah pandai nak tunjuk kalau dia happy, marah, sedih...kalau dia marah tu memang nampak sangat muka dia tu...macam tigerrrrrrrr...hehehe...jangan garang-garang sangat ye sayanggg...

Then adief dah pandai tepuk tangan...kalau dengar lagu ke mesti goyang-goyang badan dia...dengan cheeky face dia tu...hishh...geram betul...

Berat adief sekarang 8.5kg...i tengok adief macam dah kecut la..tak macam sofea dulu...montel sampai sekarang...maybe sebab adief lagi aktif kot...

Okaylah..i think tu je nak update...talk to u later dear...bye

Happy 3rd Birthday Adriana Sofea

2010-02-11T10:51:00.003+08:00

Salam u all...lamanya i tak update blog...this is my first entry for this month...so for today's entry i just wanna wish Happy 3rd Birthday to my sweet little angel Adriana Sofea...

Cepat betul dah 3 tahun...for the past 3 years, i think sofea is a very easy to take care of...memang tak susah nak jaga dia...nakal-nakal sikit tu biasa la kan...ada la jeritan manja dari mommy dia ni...pukul-pukalan manja pun ada jugak...kalau nak update pasal progress dia memang dah terlampau banyak...i pun susah nak catch up...every day there's always a surprise from her...she always makes me smile and even laugh tak ingat dunia punya...

Sofea suka sangat tengok Playhouse Disney Channel...semua cerita dia nak tengok...sometimes tension jugak sebab asyik dia je yang conquer...but she had learned a lot from there...she can understand simple english conversation...kadang-kadang kelakar jugak bila dengar dia cuba nak ikut character dalam PHD tu cakap sampai we all pun tak faham...faham hujung-hujung je...okay la tu kan...hehhehe..antara words yang dah boleh cakap "Thank you", "You're welcome", "No thanks, I'm not hungry", "what is it guys(boleh pulak dia panggil kitorg guyss...hehhee)", "How are u?I'm fine tq","Watch out mommy", "I want....","Where are you??","I'm here" ,"That's you mommy" and so on...banyak lagi sebenarnya....tapi tak dapat nak recall;-)

She likes painting, colouring books, dancing and even humming lagu-lagu kat radio...padahal lagu dia humming tu first time dia dengar....kalau aktiviti fizikal macam main dekat playground pun dia suka sangat....sofea memang suka memanjat...baru-baru ni sofea ada perangai baru...boleh la kalau nak panggil attention seeker...i perasan kalau adief tersembam ke pastu menangis then i dokong pujuk adief...pastu tak lama lepas tu sofea pun buat-buat tersembam jugak and buat-buat menangis...so i pun kena la buat sama macam i buat dekat adief...normal ke ye??normal la kot kan...maybe sofea nak tengok sama tak layanan untuk adief dengan layanan untuk dia...of coz la sama sayang, busyuk, ashammm mommy ni...

Apa lagi nak update ye...rasa macam dah banyak...i think i stop now....talk to u later...bye

For my precious Adriana Sofea, Happy Birthday to you...be a good daughter...mommy always pray for your happiness and love you always (alamak..sambil type sambil rasa sebak pulak)

p/s: balik ni nak beli choc cake for her...

Konsert Satu Suara

2010-01-28T12:22:00.001+08:00

yeay;-)

Mommy-Daughter Conversation

2010-01-26T14:48:00.005+08:00

Salam u all,

Last nite masa tengah buat kerja kat dapur tiba-tiba sofea tunjuk kat one of our(hubby n me) picture kat bangkok...

sofea : ni gambar mommy, ni gambar daddy

mommy: gambar sofea mana?

sofea : tak tau

mommy : u're inside my tummy

sofea: MOMMY!!!(sambil buat muka nak gaduh and nak nangis) JANGAN MAKAN THOFEA!!!THOFEA BIG!!!!

mommy: hahahahahhahahahaha (rasa nak pecah perut)

sofea pun tak jadik nak nangis sebab tengok mommy dia ketawa macam cik ponti....but seriously, i tak sangka sofea boleh terfikir sampai macam tu sekali...hahahhahahaha...sofea dah big girl la...

okaylah...tu je nak update...talk to u later...bye

gambar sofea masa one year old...cemetot je

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 3

2010-01-25T18:01:00.003+08:00

Salam u all....how's ur weekend?hopefully semua happy ye..

In this entry i nak cerita sikit perkembangan toilet training sofea...lama i tak update kan...mesti u all ingat i dah lupa kan cita-cita murni i to toilet train sofea sampai dia pandai before her 3rd birthday....of coz la i ingat and masih meneruskan usaha tu...

actually malas nak update kat sini sebab routine tu sama je...lagipun i only managed to train her on weekend...so harapan tu agak tipis la plus masa bulan dec tu banyak berjalan...bila berjalan memang i pakai kan sofea diaper....eh..panjang pulak explaination kan...

sambung terus pasal latest progress...as usual last weekend i tak pakaikan sofea diaper...on saturday tu sofea nak mandi awal because i bought new toothbrush for her...ada gambar princess...so semangat la sofea nak mandi...pukul 9 am dah siap...i pesan kat dia berpuluh kali la kalau nak k*nc*ng and uk uk kat toilet...so asalkan nampak muka sofea, i mentioned the same thing over and over...agaknya sofea pun boring...kali ni ada progress sebab bila i ajak pegi toilet dia dengan rela hati ikut...before this selalu gaduh dengan dia...sure melalak-lalak macam kena dera...pressure jugak...so on saturday success with no accident...

on sunday pun sama jugak...cuma kali ni i memang proud sangat dengan sofea....mula-mula ada la i ajak pegi toilet...tapi as usual tunggu punya tunggu takde...dia cakap k*nc*ng pegi kerja...than dalam 3.30pm tu i tengah lipat baju yang bertimbun...suddenly sofea cakap "mommy, sofea nak k*nc*ng"...i pun apa lagi terus melompat bawak dia...letak je kat toilet terus keluar...i was like happy gila and bangga sangat-sangat dengan sofea...sofea pun muka proud je...tak sangka anak mommy dah pandai...so on sunday pun succes with no accident...today dah cakap kat mama yang sofea dah pandai cakap bila dia nak pegi toilet...tak tau la camne progress hari ni...hopefully takde accident la...

so tu je lah progress terkini...i'm so proud of sofea...belum lagi anak lulus cemerlang dalam spm kan...memang the feeling is priceless la...mommy love sofea..nanti mommy buy big present for your birthday okay....muah muah muah...

okaylah dear...kali ni entry tanpa gambar...tak bawak memory card...talk to u later...bye

Adief : 9 months old

2010-01-21T11:34:00.004+08:00

Salam u all....

semalam (20/1) genap umur adief 9 bulan....dah macam-macam dah progress adief...adief dah boleh merangkak...walaupun kadang-kadang nampak macam dia buat kuak kupu-kupu pun ada...laju jugak la...kadang-kadang letak dia kat living room, bila tengok lagi sekali dah masuk bawah meja makan...so memang sentiasa nak kena monitor...sekarang dah start nak duduk sendiri..but still tak proper lagi...menyenget je landing dia tu...hehehe...bab lasak tu memang i tak nafikan la...sebelum ni memang biasa dengar baby boy lagi lasak dari baby girl...but i tak percaya sangat...for me baby sama je...tapi bila dah ada adief ni i rasa memang betul la...yang i notice, adief is very determine baby...kalau dia nak something, he will do anything to get that thing...he will never give up....tak fikir dah jatuh ke tergolek ke...janji dia dapat benda tu...cakap pasal jatuh, adief pecah rekod kakak sofea...sofea dulu 1st time jatuh katil masa umur dia 10 mths...adief pulak 8 mths ++ dah jatuh katil...sekarang memang tak boleh bagi dia tido atas katil...biasanya i akan tido kan dia on our bed 1st and then bila dia dah lena terus angkat masuk baby cot...risau la nak biarkan....then dah boleh berpaut kat badan orang macam nak memanjat...kalau dirikan pun dah boleh berdiri with support la of coz...

kalau bab nak suruh salam ke, babai ke or tepuk tangan belum faham lagi...bab yg ni sofea lagi cepat la...sbb sofea jenis suka ikut...memang nampak la beza perangai sofea n adief ni...bila dah ada anak lebih dari sorang ni memang kita boleh compare la...of coz in a good way...for me, i tak kisah siapa pandai dulu because both of them are my little angels...i love them so much with all my heart...

ada lagi update pasal adief on his skill...yang ni skill yang i tak berapa berkenan...adief is so clingy...pastu suka la nak merengek...emmm...maybe becoz of separation-anxiety phase...harap-harapnye cepat la abis phase ni...tapi time ni je la kita boleh nak dukung-peluk-gomol our kid tanpa perlu berhempas pulas kan...hahahahhahaha....

okaylah...panjang pulak...need to stop now...talk to u later...bye

Art Attack with Sofea

2010-01-15T14:41:00.005+08:00

Salam my dear friends...

Last saturday i ada belikan sofea Sand Art kat MPH...saja lah nak buat fun activity with sofea...lagipun sofea memang suka painting kat rumah my in law...so why not bagi dia membuat kecah kat our home kan...hehehe...so on sunday tu terus bentang newspaper kat toy room and start the activity...suka betul dia...mommy nak tolong pun sofea tak bagi...dia boleh cakap "mommy jangan tolong thofea"...so mari kita tengokkk sape yang kenaaaaaa...hehhehe

alatan-alatan yang diperlukan...semua dah ada dalam box tu...tengok camne anak dara tu duduk...

anak murid....

cara-caranya senang saje...tenyeh je kat mickey moshhh tu ye dengan menggunakan jari....mommy tukang peel, sofea tukang pull dgn tempek...

mudah saje ye...sambil buat pun still boleh tengok tv...

yeay...dah siappp....gambar ni lom habis lagi...lupa nak snap gambar yang dah siap...bagus la sand art ni...siap bagi frame sekali...

diakhiri dengan video sofea tengah draw mommy n daddy's picture...talk to u later...bye;-)

p/s: next month sofea will turn 3...cepatnya masa berlalu

Baby's Food

2010-01-07T16:59:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum semua...now dah pukul 5pm...baru ada masa nak update sikit...hari ni i nak cerita pasal Baby's food...takde la cerita panjang pun...just nak bagitau pasal 1st solid food for adief n sofea....kalau nak ikutkan i ni memang la kurang rajin bab masak-masak ni...mengaku jelah kan...tapi bila ada anak ni memang kena rajin la masak...so masa sofea umur 6 mths tu memula try bagi dia makan cereal..tapi dia memang tak suka langsung...muka dia sama macam muka i kalau minum susu...adief pun macam tu jugak...so nak taknak memang i need to cook for them...antara resepi yang i pernah buat,

1. sweet potato + carrot + parsnip

2. bubur + potato + carrot

3. bubur + ikan bilis + bayam

4. bubur + ayam + potato

cara-cara nak buat tu semuanya sama je,

- segenggam beras : basuh dan masuk dalam periuk...bubuh air banyak dan masak

- bahan-bahan lain : potong kecil-kecil pastu campak je dalam periuk tu

- bila air dah nak kering, tutup api

masa untuk sofea dulu i blend semua makanan dia so takyah la tunggu sampai air tu kering sangat....tapi untuk adief memang i tunggu sampai jadi bubur...tu yang lama tu...pastu tenyeh-tenyeh dengan garfu bahan-bahan lain bagi sebati dengan bubur...

memang ambil masa la nak masak sebab nak jadik bubur kan...rasanya dalam 2 jam jugak la...macam adief masa memula tu i jumpa baby food dalam botol brand Heinz...i amik flavor sweet potato + carrot + parsnip dengan pumpkin + sweet corn...i bagi during weekend je la...during weekdays my MIL's maid will cook for him...tapi bila lama-lama tu i rasa kesian dekat adief coz i tak masak untuk dia walaupun dia ok je kan...so i pun start la masak untuk adief walaupun preparation dia lagi lama dari nak feeding him...alhamdulillah lepas tengok dia makan tu terus i excited nak masak lagi...worth it....adief memang suka sgt my cook...usually i will cook for 2 days meals(saturday n sunday)...masuk dalam bekas...bila nak makan just panaskan portion yang nak bagi dekat adief...so far dia takde problem bab makan ni...2 senduk mesti habiss...sayang busyuk mommy ni...this entry boleh la wat rujukan for new mommy and also for me in the future...i ada beli magazine Rasa...ada byk resepi untuk anak dari baby sampai la remaja...okaylah...ni i upload gambar n video adief....talk to u later...bye

My Princess Sofea

2010-01-05T15:07:00.005+08:00

Salam u all...this is my first entry for 2010...makin lama makin sikit pulak entry dalam blog ni kan...bukannya taknak update, it just that i kekurangan idea la...seronok baca blog orang je...

masa tengah nak carik file lama dalam my external harddisk, tetiba terbuka folder gambar-gambar lama sofea....bila tengok balik rasa rindunya sofea masa kecik...next month she will turn 3...OMG tak sangka ada anak umur 3 yo....pejam celik pejam celik nanti ada anak umur 30 tahun pulak...huhuhu...tak tau la masa tu panjang umur lagi ke tak....alamak..tetiba rasa sebak...

okaylah, ni i post kan randomly gambar sofea masa baby n 1 ++ y.o...

thats all for now....nanti nak cerita pasal cuti-cuti malaysia last year...memory card tak bawak...talk to u later...bye..

p/s: hubby kata seronok amik gambar sofea masa kecik-kecik...sekarang susah betul nak amik...

p/s2: rambut sofea sekarang dah panjang...bila tgk gambar lama sofea ni rasa nak potong je rambut dia...should i?what do u think?

Happy New Year 2010!!!

2009-12-31T15:56:00.003+08:00

Hi all, just drop by to wish you a Happy New Year 2010!
Hope 2010 will bring more happiness to all of you...see you next year gals...bye

Thank you

2009-12-23T14:21:00.005+08:00

Thank you every one for your warm wishes on my birthday (yesterday btw)...Tua dah ek...huhu...
anyway special thanks to my dear hubby for this super duper lovely present

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alhamdulillah:-) muah muah muah for you dear

but the most important thing is i have my hubby, my adorable kids, my parents, my sisters, my brothers and my friends on my special day...and i know they love me so much...and of coz i love them with every single beat of my heart....and i swearrr...eh..ternyanyi pulak...hehehe...oklah dear...talk to u later...bye

Adief : 8 months old

2009-12-21T14:23:00.005+08:00

Salam u all...hari ni i nak update pasal my buah hati pengarang jantung Adief Shafiy...semalam genap la adief 8 months...cepatnya adief dah besar...bau baby pun dah nak hilang....bau masyamm macam kakak sofea dah dia...on friday masa cuti Maal Hijrah tu adief macam nak kena selsema...so on saturday tu bawak adief pegi klinik...lega adief tak demam..so bagi dia ubat selsema + batuk sekali....biasa la kalau anak-anak sakit, sure kita tak senang hati kan...oklah, sambung balik cerita pasal his development progress...

mat senyum

adief dah pandai menyusur sekarang...dah boleh gi depan, gi belakang, gi kiri, gi kanan...but sometimes adief masuk gear reverse...hehehe...bontot pun dah boleh angkat sambil goyang-goyang tapi belum merangkak lagi...mulut memang bising sangat...rasanya dah ada 2nd sofea dalam our home...musykil gak camne anak-anak banyak mulut memandangkan my hubby n me agak berat mulut...hehehhee...kalau jumpa orang mesti tanya camne sofea banyak cakap..mommy n daddy senyap je...elok gak kan, so that takde la sunyi rumah...adief dah pandai tunjuk emotion...kalau dia marah memang nampak la dia marah...especially kalau orang ambik barang dari tangan dia...suka main peek-a-boo...pandai pulak tu kalau i nyorok, dia carik...bila kita sergah je mengekek-ngekek dia ketawa...happy betul...malam-malam still bangun minum susu...sofea dulu memang dah tak bangun dah...bila dia terjaga je dia hisap jari..adief tak berapa pandai hisap jari..so tu yg nangis tu mintak susu...bila adief nak tido sampai pagi ni sayang...last saturday perasan ada putih kat gusi dia...bila rasa rupanya dah ada gigi keluar...so for the record, his 1st tooth keluar on 19th Dec 2009...patut la asyik drooling je....for now tu je la latest update on adief....tunggu next month pulak for his new development progress...to my dear adief, mommy love u so much....talk to u later friends...bye

Balik Kampung + Jalan Penang

2009-12-09T14:26:00.007+08:00

Salam u all...sihat ke?hopefully semua sihat ye...my previous entry ada i suruh teka kan...tapi 2 orang je yang teka...malu la bagi teka-teki tapi takde sape nak teka...hahahhahaha*nyorok bawah meja la*...jawapan yang shana n is bagi tu tak betul la...jawapan sebenar dia sofea naik aeroplane...use ur imagination ye kawan-kawan....i pun tak terfikir yang dia naik aeroplane...sofea sofea...
Hari ni nak story pasal we all balik kampung kat Gurun, Kedah...ni rumah tok sebelah babah...actually we all balik pun bukan time raya haji...raya haji raya kat rumah mama kat gombak...semua ada termasuk la shana....pastu pegi rumah pak anjang dengan lepak rumah shana...tu je lah aktiviti termasuk la aktiviti makan dan makan...cakap pasal makan, berat i dah naik la :-( sambung balik cerita balik kampung...melalut pulaknye..ari tu balik sebab my cousin kawin...bertolak dari kl pukul 9 am hari ahad (29/11/09)...singgah kat restoran jejantas kat sungai buloh for breakfast.....so sampai rumah lang dalam pukul 2.30pm...pengantin pun tak sampai lagi...lepas dah makan n lepak kejap, terus balik rumah tok....seronok la sofea balik kampung...boleh kejar chicken...pastu boleh pulak dia lawan berkokok dengan ayam...elok pulak tu lepas dia berkokok, ayam pulak berkokok...ada la 4, 5 round ayam tu ikut dia...hahahhaha...lawak betul...i dah tergelak-gelak dah...pastu ikut tokbah round satu kawasan rumah tengok ikan kat anak sungai depan rumah tok...hubby pun tak lepas peluang ronda sambil amik gambar...maklum la hubby takde kampung...kampung baru kat kl adalah...hehehhe...dalam pukul 6 lebih tu bertolak la nak bermalam kat penang...saje la hubby bawak anak bini jalan-jalan kan....hubby booked resort office dia dengan harga RM4 semalam...ye kawan-kawan...hanya RM4...murah kan...resort tu betul-betul sebelah Hard Rock Hotel...kalau ikutkan boleh sangat nak jalan gi kat HRC tapi sofea dengan adief nak letak manakan...sampai resort tu memang lambat la sebab dari gurun ke penang jam tak hengat...sampai hotel dalam pukul 9 lebih mlm....adief dengan sofea sempat la tido nyenyak dalam kereta...tapi bila dukong naik resort terus mata memasing terbeliyakkk...lepak-lepak dulu n mandi semua terus pegi batu ferringhi tempat jual barang-barang tepi jalan tu....tujuannye memang nak carik dvd murah...habis jugak la RM100 semata-mata beli dvd...tu pun tak dapat nak pilih-pilih sangat sebab sorang dukong sofea, sorang dukong adief...cepat bayangkannn...dah la panas kan...sian adief n sofea....lepas settle terus gi makan...carik-carik jumpa la Tari cafe...masa i belaja dulu pernah la makan sini...sedap jugak food dia...sesuai la dgn selera i n hubby...lepas makan terus balik...

supposed we plan nak balik on monday...tapi hubby memang booked untuk 2 malam...dia kata saja je sebab murah kan...so takde la nak kena check out tepat-tepat pukul 12 on monday tu..fikir punya fikir, we decided to extend our vacation...dah alang-alang accomodation dah ada kan....call mama cakap we all stay kat penang lagi...pastu dia cakap diorg pun nak datang penang la...so tunggu la diorang sampai dari gurun...so sementara tu sempat la pegi Butterfly Farm...cik kak sofea tu memang suka sangat dalam tu sampai dia cakap thofea taknak balik...puas gak pujuk baru ok...hehehhe...nanti tengok gambar-gambar ye...lepas tu pegi lunch kat area Fort Cornwallis...makan mee sotong...sape pernah makan mee sotong tu??sedap kan...hubby la yang bagitau...walaupun i pernah study selama 4 tahun dekat penang, tapi tak pernah tau pun ada mee sotong....dalam pukul 5 lebih tu mama and the geng pun sampai...lepak-lepak kejap then terus carik apartment untuk diorang...jumpa la Sri Sayang kalau tak silap i...naik kejap tunggu diorg settle apa-apa yang patut, terus bawak diorg pegi tengok our resort....then pegi makan nasi kandar dekat restoran aleef...bila perut dah kenyang baru la pegi batu ferringhi...nak carik dvd lagi...sekali tu semua tutup...agaknye ada raid kot....frust la ejam tak dapat beli dvd...nasib baik la i dah beli banyak hari ahad....lepas shopping seketul dua barang terus la balik tempat masing-masing...
On tuesday, mama and the geng check out awal...pastu diorang terus balik kl...we checked out at 12++ pm....before that sempat la jalan-jalan kat tepi pantai depan resort...takut nak mandi sebab ombak besar jugak....sofea suka main pasir....lepas check out singgah toy museum and had our lunch at kayu nasi kandar...tercapai gak hasrat nak makan kat situ...dalam pukul 3 lebih pm terus balik kl...sampai rumah dalam pukul 8pm...beli pizza for our dinner....balik tu pancit la masing-masing...memang exhausted sangat tapi i enjoy sangat sebab dapat pegi jalan-jalan dengan family...as usual, bila tengok muka sofea enjoy memang priceless la...sampaikan bila dia dah cam jalan nak balik rumah tu dia cakap thofea tak nak balik sambil nangisssss...okaylah...panjang jugak cerita i ni...talk to u later...bye

Cuba Teka..

2009-12-07T16:26:00.004+08:00

Salam u all...lamanya tak update blog...banyak cerita nak kongsi tapi i tak bawak memory card la..tak seronok pulak nak cerita takde gambar kan...so petang ni i just nak suruh u all teka-teka la...ada ke orang nak teka ni???hehehe...so siapa yang menjadi orang pertama yang dapat teka dengan betul, i bagi hadiah ye...cuba teka cik kak ni tengah naik apa?

p/s: tengah sakit gigi ni...sakit sampai pening kepala...adoiii la seksanya sakit gigi...

Adief : 7 months old

2009-11-25T15:29:00.005+08:00

Salam u all..rasa macam lama je tak update blog ni...busy dgn tender...pagi tadi baru hantar...lega sikit...hopefully success la...aminnnn
hari ni i nak update sikit pasal adief...he's already 7 months old..cepat betul la masa berlalu...seriously i rasa cepat sangat adief membesar compared to time sofea dulu...maybe time tu anak sorang je kan so asyik la buat count down nak tunggu sofea membesar...now dah ada 2 kids tak sempat la nak count down...
on 20th Nov tu genap la adief 7 months...sekarang ni adief dah pandai sebut da da da, ta ta ta, ada ada ada....last time aaaaa je kan...mat cool ni dah kurang cool la sekarang...adief dah start clingy...nampak mommy je nangis nak dukung, nampak daddy je nangis suruh ambik...time adief nak suruh ambik tu adief jadik macam ulat beluncas tau...hehhehe...adief kan dah start makan since dia 6 months old..so far alhamdulillah ok je selera dia...apa lagi ye nak update..adief still belum crawling..macam sofea dulu memang tak crawl..tau-tau je dia nak bertatih...sementara nak pandai bertatih tu dia buat kuak kupu-kupu la kalau nak mobile...laju pulak tu...adief ni tak tau la sama ke tak dengan kakak thofea..i think tu jela update on adief..yang lain-lain tu sama macam sebelum-sebelum ni...
okaylah u all...dikesempatan ini i nak ucapkan Selamat Hari Raya Haji...have a long holiday ye...insyaAllah kami sekeluarga akan balik Gurun, Kedah on sunday...ada wedding my cousin...amik cuti on monday nak cuti-cuti malaysia;-) need to stop now..talk to u later...bye

macam ni la adief kalau nak suruh orang dukung dia

mata pun jadik bulat nak marah la tu

dengan tok bah tersayang

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 2

2009-11-19T14:58:00.003+08:00

Salam u all...how r u today??i ni kan sebenarnya bz tau...sebab ada tender yang ditunggu-tunggu dah masuk...so kena lah berhempas pulas kan buat yang terbaik...hopefully ada la rezeki...aminnn...cepat amin beramai-ramai;-)
okaylah sementara i tengah nak panas kan enjin ni, i nak update sikit pasal toilrt training sofea...nanti kalau tak update u all kata i mengelatkan tak buat ataupun hangat-hangat tahi ayam...hehehhe...
on saturday morning, bangun je tido i bawak sofea gi toilet...suruh dia wee wee kan...tapi takde jugak...agaknye dia dah wee wee dalam kampesss(sofea sebuat diaper tu kempesss...hehehe) dia...then i terus tak pakaikan diaper...pesan la kat dia kalau nak k*nc*ng atau uk uk cakap tau...dia pun as usual cakap okay mommy...yo yo ooo je sofea ni...dalam pukul 11 tu hubby nak mandikan sofea sebab we all nak get ready pegi celebrate papa(FIL)'s birthday kat Concorde Hotel...so lepas mandi tu memang terus pakaikan sofea diaper...jadiknya 3 jam je la sofea diaperless with zero accident...
on sunday pulak start lepas mandi memang tak pakai kan diaper...masa tu pukul 12...eh..asyik mandi pukul 12 je kan budak ni...hehehehe...kantoiiiii...dalam pukul 1 lebih tu i tengah tidokan adief dalam bilik, hubby pulak tengah vacuum rumah*hubby i memang rajin kemas rumah;-)*, tetiba sofea cakap dia yak yak...tengok memang dah ada...seb baik tak bersepah...so i bawak la sofea and cleaned her up...suruh jugak dia duduk kat potty kot la nak k*nc* g kan...tapi takde...i target dalam pukul 2.30pm i nak bawak dia lagi...tapi masa tu tengah prepare for lunch (we had late breakfast if u're curious nape lambat lunch)..dalam pukul 2.40pm tu sofea jerit dari toyroom cakap dia uk uk...tengok-tengok dah basah...baru i notice rupanye kalau dia cakap dia uk uk tu sebenarnye dia wee wee and kalau dia cakap dia yak yak tu maknenye dia doo doo...alhamdulillah Allah bagi kesabaran dekat i masa dah basah-basah tu kan...takde la rasa nak mengamuk ke...lagipun bukan salah sofea..kalau i bwk dia masa pukul 2.30pm tu sure dia tak bocor kan...sofea belum pandai lagi nak inform before dia buat business...lepas dah settle baru dia inform...memang camtu ke?on sunday tu memang dia diaperless sampai pukul 6pm...lepas mandi memang pakaikan diaper sebab dia tak nap lagi so biasanya dia akan tertido sampai la esok pagi...kesimpulannya 6 hrs diaperless with 2 accidents(1 besaaarrr punye, 1 kecikkk)...so far so good kan..

kat sini i nak bagitau la antara cabaran-cabaran nak potty/toilet train sofea:
1. memang susah sangat nak ajak dia pegi toilet...takkan asyik nak pancing je dgn coklat or benda-benda lain...ada sesiapa nak bagi suggestion pleaseeee
2. i boleh train only on weekend...sebab on weekdays tu susah sikit la coz bibik MIL tu banyak kerjakan...so i taknak menyusahkan..kalau bibik i sendiri memang i suruh je...rasa-rasanya berkesan ke??
3. ape lagi ek...kalau awal-awal ni i tak berani nak diaperless kan sofea bila nak jalan-jalan coz nanti susah pulak...i'm not ready...what do u thing?
so far tu je kot..any progress will update soonnn...
ni ada selingan wat penghibur hati i n u all;-)

situation 1
sofea tengah main spray air..pastu i nak ambik la sebab dia sibuk spray her tent..tetiba dia jerit "NOOOO, GIVE ME BACK!!" amboi budak ni...nak tergelak pun ada..

situation 2
dalam kereta pagi-pagi nak pegi kerja
me: malam tadi sofea mimpi apa?
sofea: mimpi kurus....
me: hahahahahhahahahahhahaha...siann anak mommy ni

situation 3
hubby: wife H(bukan nama sebenar) dah bersalin
me: ooo yeke...boy ke girl
sofea: kawan daddy dapat baby mcm thofea
me: aik...*musykil sbb budak kecik tu boleh tau pulak
hubby: tadi dia dengar masa H call i..sofea tanya kawan daddy ke...
me: laaa...hehehhee
boleh pulak dia paham ape kita sembang dalam phone...bzbody tau makcik ni..

okaylah u all...panjang pulak konon nak cerita sikit je kan...hehehhe...nak sambung wat kerja...dah panas dah enjin ni...talk to u later...bye;-)

Potty/Toilet Training - Part 1

2009-11-10T15:44:00.003+08:00

budak yang nak kena train

Salam u all...topik hari ni ialah Potty/Toilet Train...actually dah lama dah i pasang niat nak start train sofea...tapi biasa la...dalam sehari tu sekali je i bawak dia pegi toilet...pastu sofea pun cakap takde la mommy...takde pun...pastu i pun dah malas....then bila baca or dengar cerita kawan-kawan lain yang dah berjaya train their kids, i pun jeles la kan pastu berkobar-kobar balik nak train sofea...kiranya hangat-hangat taik ayam la....lagipun i belum bersedia dari segi mental dan fizikal kalau sofea terkucil merata-rata kan...but in the same time i dah browse la dalam internet nak carik tips-tips yang berguna....ni antara yang i buat for my reference:

Toilet Training Your Child
When should I start toilet training my child?
Do not start toilet training until both you and your child are ready. You are ready when you are able to devote the time and energy necessary to encourage your child on a daily basis for at least 3 months.Your child is ready when he or she can signal that the diaper is wet or soiled, or when your child is able to say that he or she would like to go to the potty. This usually occurs when a child is 18 to 24 months of age. However, it is not uncommon for a child to still be in diapers at 2 and a half to 3 years of age.

How should I prepare my child for toilet training?
Allow your child to be present when you go to the bathroom and make your child feel comfortable in the bathroom. Allow your child to see urine and bowel movements in the toilet. Let your child play with flushing the toilet.Before toilet training your child, place a potty chair in your child's normal living and play area so that your child will become familiar with the potty. Consider placing a potty chair on each floor of the house if you live in a multilevel home. Allow your child to observe, touch and become familiar with the potty chair.Tell your child that the potty chair is his or her own chair. Allow your child to sit fully clothed on the potty chair, as if it were a regular chair. Allow your child to leave the potty chair at any time. Do not force your child to spend time sitting on the chair.After your child has become used to the potty chair and sits on it regularly with his or her clothes on, try having your child sit on the potty without wearing pants and a diaper. Let your child become comfortable with sitting on the potty without wearing pants and a diaper.The next step is to show your child how the potty chair is used. Place stool from a dirty diaper into the potty chair. Allow your child to observe the transfer of the bowel movement from the potty chair into the toilet. Let your child flush the toilet and watch the bowel movement disappear down the toilet.

How do I teach my child to use the toilet?
After your child has become comfortable with flushing the toilet and sitting on the potty chair, you may begin teaching your child to go to the bathroom. Keep your child in loose, easily removable pants.Place your child on the potty chair whenever he or she signals the need to go to the bathroom. Your child's facial expression may change when he or she feels the need to urinate or to have a bowel movement. Your child may stop any activity he or she is engaged in when he or she feels the need to go to the bathroom.Most children have a bowel movement once a day, usually within an hour after eating. Most children urinate within an hour after having a large drink.In addition to watching for signals that your child needs to urinate or have a bowel movement, place your child on the potty at regular intervals. This may be as often as every 1and a half to 2 hours.Stay with your child when he or she is on the potty chair. Reading or talking to your child when he or she is sitting on the potty may help your child relax. Praise your child when he or she goes to the bathroom in the potty chair, but do not express disappointment if your child does not urinate or have a bowel movement in the potty. Be patient with your child.Once your child has learned to use the potty chair, your child can begin using an over-the-toilet seat and a step-up stool.

How long will it take to toilet train my child?
It may take up to 3 months. It is important for you to be patient and supportive. Do not punish your child when he or she has an accident.If your child is not toilet trained within 3 months, consult your family doctor. The most likely reason your child has not learned to use the potty is that your child is not yet ready for toilet training.

i hope that by umur sofea 3tahun (11th Feb 2010), at least dia dah boleh cakap la kalau dia nak wee or doo...harap-harapnye berjaya la ye...so ni benda-benda yang perlu:

first sekali of coz la kena ada potty chair nye kan...as for me potty dah tak payah beli sebab tokbah sofea dah belikan for her 1st birthday...lama dah kan...potty sofea bentuk macam kerusi..so kalau taknak buat potty, nak buat kerusi untuk tengok tv pun boleh;-) i dah letak potty tu dalam 2nd bathroom yang senang nak access from living room, dining area, kitchen and toy room...
secondly of coz la budak kecik yang nak kena train tu...kira trainee la kan...hehehe...rasanya dia dah ready...umur pun dah masuk 2thn 9bln...mulut pun macam mak nenek kan..
then trainer pun mesti ready kan...on sunday tu siap tanya hubby susah tak nak cuci carpet kalau kena pee sofea...mudah-mudahan kuat la semangat i dan diberi tahap kesabaran yang tinggi;-) takut gak kalau jadik hulk kan...for the time being i train during weekend je la...kalau tahap accident kurang boleh la minta tolong maid MIL tolong train during weekdays...

bahan-bahan bacaan untuk sofea guna masa tengah dok dalam toilet...penting jugak ni sebab lama kan nak tunggu...boring pulak minah tu karang

rewards untuk trainee..hari tu sofea nak belon..so i dah belikan belon satu pek...ada 15 biji(kalau belon biji ke ek...hehehe)...daddy sofea jadi tukang blow sebab kalau mommy sofea yang blow harapkan pipi je yang kembung...takde la bagi semua terus...bagi satu dulu...masa i beli kan tu hubby cakap i bribe sofea...i cakap tu bukan bribe, tu reward...there's a very fine line between those words...depends on our intention kan...betul tak kawan-kawan...hehehe

rasanya tu je la kot...kalau ada tertinggal boleh tak u all tinggalkan comment:-D

so nak dijadikan cerita, on sunday tu i dah nekad nak start jugak...lepas je mandi i tak pakaikan diaper kat sofea...pakai panty je...sebab kalau pakai kan diaper, automatic i pun take for granted...masa tu dah pukul 12noon...kantoi sofea mandi lambat...hehehe...bukan selalu camtu ye kawan-kawan...sometimes je terbabas...so i pun set la every 2 hrs i bawak sofea duduk atas potty dia...susah jugak nak pujuk dia...dalam pukul 2 tu i cakap nak bagi coklat...dia pun agree la...i baca kan la story book kat dia...sambil tu dia ngomel la takde pun...takde pun....so 1st time tu memang dia tak pee...pakaikan balik panty dia...dalam pukul 3 tu i bawak lagi sebab takde kan...masa ni dia memang taknak...kebetulan dia nak belon masa tu...i pun cakap la nanti mommy beli balloon ok...dia jawab thofea nak pink balloon...oklah sofea...dia pun ikut la masuk...sama jugak takde keluar...i letak dia dalam 10minutes camtu la..sambil tu i buat la apa-apa yang patut...dengar la dia ngomel sorang-sorang...then dalam pukul 4 pujuk dia lagi...letak dia atas potty i pun keluar...tetiba dengar dia cakap ada la mommy...i pun terus la masuk bathroom...bila intai takde pun...sekali tu baru ada...masa ni muka sofea macam surprise sangat...sebab 1st time kot tengok camne air keluar kan...hahahhaha....dia terus cakap "thofea tembak square"...*dia cakap tembak sebab kat rumah i pakai kepala paip yang jenis tekan tu pastu keluar air...hubby selalu cakap kat sofea tembak air...tu yang dia cakap tembak tu...hehhehe...square tu tiles dalam bathroom...ada lah air k*nc*ng dia yang terkena kat lantai*...excited and proud sangat dia...i pun of coz la proud sangat of her....bising la dua beranak dalam bathroom tu sebab excited melampau...hehehhe....lepas dah cuci tu i pun pakaikan la diaper sebab we all nak keluar...so for 1st day succeed la kan...4 hrs diaper free and no accident ;-) tak sabar nak tunggu this saturday...2nd day of mission...kalau ok i'll update in my blog ye...kalau senyap je tu maknanya takde la tu kan...heehhee...

so mommies out there, jom la share ur experience how to potty/toilet train ur kid...sesiapa yang nak share, boleh la post in your blog and then leave ur blog url kat comment ye...i really need help...okaylah..have to stop now...talk to u later...bye

muka budak happy dapat tembak kat square...heheheh

Weekend Stories

2009-11-09T14:58:00.007+08:00

Hello my dear friends...sihat ke semua?i hope u all sihat ye...so how's your weekend?hari ni i nak cerita la apa jadi during weekend...as usual, time weekend la boleh spend time dengan hubby and kids...tak kisah la aktiviti apa as long i can be with my family...on saturday tu takde buat apa pun..memang melepak je kat rumah plus heavy raining on the evening...sofea pun bangun lambat...ngantuk sangat la tu...i buat french toast for breakfast..lunch pulak we had grilled dory + fries + carrot...rasanya biasa je la sebab resepi tu i memandai-mandai sendiri...hehehe...masa tengah-tengah prepare for lunch tu letak adief atas toto...pastu i nampak sofea dok layan adief...tetiba rasa macam sejuk hati sebab sofea pandai layan adief...kalau dia dengar adief nangis memang cepat-cepat panggil i or hubby...dia yang risau tengok mommy or daddy tak attend adief....hehehhee...malam pulak i masak nasi then hubby buat telur masak secret recipe...memang sedap la...terbuka selera...sofea pun suka...tapi takleh makan telur selalu ye sofea...nanti bertambah montel pulak awak...hehehe...

sofea tgh nak cabut 'key merah' nak bagi kat adief

dah berjaya cabut n bagi kat adief main

kakak thofea yang boleh diharap;-)

adief main 'key merah'

on sunday pulak, pagi sampai petang tu we just stayed at home...settle kan apa-apa yang patut...actually ada cerita pasal i dah start toilet train sofea..nanti i buat entry lain ok...memang happy sangat...then dalam pukul 4 lebih tu i dah tak keruan...so ajak hubby keluar...i ajak pegi pavilion...saja la jalan-jalan cari makan...as usual kalau bab-bab berjalan ni i memang suka...walaupun tak beli apa-apa kan...sofea pun happy walaupun dah mengantuk sebab dia tak nap lagi...disebabkan i dah janji nak bagi reward pink balloon kat dia sebab dia nak pee kat potty dia, so tujuan pegi pavilion was to find pink balloon for sofea...hahhahaha...seb baik jumpa...so tu jelah weekend stories our family...biasa je kan but we still had fun;-) so enjoy the pics ya!
talk to u later dear...bye

adief dah boleh pegang botol sendiri

daddy mithali;-)...tgk adief mat bzbody...hehehe

diakhiri dgn video clip adief n sofea;-)

camni la kalau sofea nangis...

Gasak-gasak...

2009-11-04T13:00:00.004+08:00

Salam u all...saje nak update sikit pasal sofea...sekarang ni sofea terlampau la banyak cakap...pastu suka sangat ikut ape orang-orang sekeliling dia cakap...nyanyi pun memang hobi dia..ada sekali tu dalam kereta ada lagu Aku Bukan Superman by Lucky Laki kat radio...sekali dengar ada org ngomel-ngomel kat belakang...bila dengar bebetul rupanya sofea tengah humming lagu tu...pastu dok sebut aku...aku...hehhehe...lawak betul la...

semalam pulak masa tengah borak-borak dengan kak jajie, abg zekri, nadia n hubby tetiba hujan lebat sangat...nak tau ape sofea cakap

"GASAK GASAK, HARI DAH HUJAN..."

hahahhahahaha...lawak gile...tak pernah pulak dengar dia sebut perkataan gasak gasak tu...ni mesti ikut nan n atuk dia cakap...sofea ni memang penghibur hati kami;-)

okaylah u all..nak sambung buat kerja...talk to u later...bye

kreatif tak saya??

Family Outing

2009-11-02T13:23:00.005+08:00

aci tak jadik family photo..hehhe

Hi u all...lama betul rasanya tak update dalam blog ni...bolah tahan jugak la busy sekarang ni plus dengan penyakit 'M'...kadang-kadang tu rasa macam nak update tapi ideanya tu tak mari...

Cerita pasal family outing ni, sejak dah ada 2 kids ni memang kurang sikit la aktiviti ni...kalau ikut i ni memang jenis suka berjalan...tak kisah la nak pergi mana-mana asalkan berjalan...but since dah ada baby ni memang slow sikit la kalau nak pergi jalan jauh-jauh...bukan ape, bila nak keluar tu mestilah macam-macam barang baby nak kena prepare kan...air panas, ais suam, susu, pampers, extra baju n so on...pastu belum fikir lagi kalau sofea n adief doo doo kan...that's why i suka jalan dalam shopping mall...baby-friendly kan...hehehee...but we're still go out sometimes...takde la terperap je kat rumah...last saturday, we went to sabak bernam to visit my bro, adiq...memang letih jugak la walaupun bukan i yg drive...stop kat petrol station dua kali sebab nak tukar diaper adief...banyak kali pulak mat kool ni uk uk...bertolak pukul 12 noon sampai tempat adief lebih kurang pukul 3pm...then adiq bawak pegi tepi pantai...makan mee udang yang boleh tahan la sedap dia...udang memang heavennn..banyak gilerrr...pastu lepak tepi laut..pantai kat situ memang tak boleh mandi...but the view memang cantikkk dengan angin sepoi-sepoi bahasa...dalam pukul 4.30pm tu hantar adiq balik poli then terus shoot balik kl...sampai wangsa maju singgah kedai makan tapau for dinner...sampai rumah lebih kurang pukul 8 pm...balik terus mandi-mandikan sofea n adief...hubby memang tersandar je kat recliner...penat tu drive jauh kan...pastu memang pancit la memasing...but i still had fun tho...ni kira macam practise la nak jalan jauh...banyak dapat jemputan kawin hujung tahun ni...okaylah...saje nak share the experience berjalan jauh with 2 kids...maklum la kampung i kat kl je so tak banyak sangat la jalan jauh...hehehhe...ni ada a few pics taken masa kat sabak bernam...gambar tak cun sebab pakai hp je...talk to u later...bye

sofea n pak teh

adief, daddy n mommy

daddy n mat kool

sofea yang camera shy

adief yang suka tersenyum

susah betul nak amik gambar sofea

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2009-10-26T14:43:00.002+08:00

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nak tau ke macammana i dapat??actually i ada register untuk jawab online survey...dah lama dah register...bila diorang hantar survey, terus la jawab...every survey yang i jawab tu diorang akan bagi point..point bukan sikit-sikit tau...kadang-kadang terus dapat 200points...bila dah banyak boleh la redeem from catalog diorang...memang best la...senang-senang je dapat barang free kan...nak jawab survey pun bukannya lama...dalam 5 minutes la...so siapa yang interested boleh tinggalkan email kat comment ye...nanti i refer kan kat u all...benda baik apa salahnya share kan...sharing is caring;-) okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye

I Love You

2009-10-23T17:19:00.003+08:00

Salam u all...tadi i bukak blog yusvogue and i found the article that she posted so touching...so i nak share la...to my hubby, i love u so much....i hope our marriage will last forever....promise ok....
kalau rasa-rasa macam bosan tu boleh la dukung i hari-hari;-)
so my dear friends...sila la baca ye...

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Dear Girlfrens,In our changing lifestyle and ambitious busy days, we sometimes need to read such messages to keep our feet on the ground.
If your spouse has no email, please print for them.

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All Married Couples and To All Future Couples!!!!

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger.
I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed.
So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more.
Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:'I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart'
The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy.
Do have a real happy marriage!If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you just might save a marriage.
Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.
We teach some by what we say
We teach some more by what we do
But we teach most by what we are
- Unknown
You don't get to choose how you are going to die, or when, but, you can decide how you are going to live, here and now.

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ni ada lagi satu article i dapat from ayien's blog...

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.
There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftover, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all I heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bedsheet and blanket!Boy was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking!
He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation:"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn’t anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet; hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles.. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."
At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son’s room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.
A year has passed since the episode; I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten.. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up.However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son’s absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show’ organized by his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....
Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud too!Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the Christmas spirit is in every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day’s work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ‘I’m sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of the year.His answer, amidst his sobbing, was: The letters were for Mummy.My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: "But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's reply was: "I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..."
After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to say.....I told my son, "Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after, he was sleeping soundly.
On promising that I will burn the letters on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldn’t help opening the letter before they turn to ash.And one of the letters broke my heart....
Dear Mummy,
I miss you so much! Today, there was a ‘Talent Show' in school, and the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was furious, and he couldn’t help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room.. I think we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think.. But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why haven’t you appear?
After reading the letter, I can’t stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....
For the females with children:
Don't do so much overtime.
If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem.
Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious.
For the married men:
Drink less; smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business or clients.
Try thinking this way; are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? Or your boss is totally dependent on you?
In this society, no one is indispensable.
Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious and your loved ones.
For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first.With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.

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so dari 2 articles ni, i think we should always appreciate our love ones...don't take things for granted and always tell your spouse, children, parents, family n friends that you love them...kita tak tau apa akan jadi in future kan...okaylah u all...have a nice weekend ya!talk to u later...bye

Adief : 6 months old (Part 2)

2009-10-21T11:41:00.004+08:00

Salam u all...siap ada part 2 la pulakkan...hehehe...actually tengah-tengah nak update semalam terus tak nampak ape yg i type...maybe sebab screen hp tu kecik benar...so i sambung sikit la progress adief as at 6 months old..adief sekarang ni kalau nampak mommy or daddy mesti dia nak mintak dukung...tengah sedap-sedap dia baring tu mesti dia nangis suruh angkat...manja je busyukk mommy ni...semalam start la his 1st solid food...i belikan heinz rice cereal...semalam nasiah cakap okay adief makan...senang hati mommy;-)memang i personally tunggu sampai my kids genap 6 bulan baru bagi makan...actually ada jugak my friends yang dah bagi solid food since their baby 4 months old..so masing-masing ada cara sendiri kan and every parents have their own reasons and ways how tu raise their children...bagi i there's no right or wrong...jangan pulak tengok orang lain buat lain dari kita, pastu kita cakap orang tu salah...we have to respect other parents...tapi jangan la buat benda yang memang boleh memudaratkan our baby:-D sambung balik progress adief...he can sits unsupportedly for a few seconds..pastu tumbang...hehehe..suara pun boleh tahan mat kool ni...pagi-pagi dah kejut semua orang...dia paling suka kalau kakak sofea agah dia..memang dia gelak mengekek2...kelaka pulaknye tengok dua beradik tu...camne la bila adief dah boleh main sama-sama dgn sofea...mesti riuh rumah i...okaylah u all...dah abis dah update skill adief...this saturday nak bawak adief for his jab n check up...last month berat dia dah 7.2kg...this month tak tau la berapa...dah makin bam bam dah anak mommy ni...have to stop...talk to u later...bye

my two bam bams

Adief : 6 months old

2009-10-20T17:58:00.007+08:00

Hi u all...actually i ada dekat starbuck aeon AU2...bos bagi balik awal sebab no electricity..dalam pukul 4.30pm tadi terus cabut..tetiba masa tengah drive tu i terfikir nak lepak somewhere to kill the time sebab nanti nak fetch my hubby kat lrt station..so here i am..updating my blog using my precious E71;-)
Hari nak bagitau yang adief genap 6 bulan..how time flies..kejap je dah setengah tahun mat kool tu..progress dia tak banyak sangat compare dengan last month.boleh guling-guling..pandai tunjuk emotion..boleh pass barang between his 2 hands..alamak!nape skrin ni tak boleh nampak..okay lah u all..i'll continue tomorrow..talk to u later..bye

Maybelline Lasting Drama Gel EyeLiner

2009-10-19T12:47:00.005+08:00

Hi u all...sihat semua?hopefully semua sihat ye...hari last Syawal kan...kejap je dah habis raya...i baru la hari last day nak puasa enam...sungguh tak senonoh kan...padahal yang lima hari tu dah 2 minggu lepas habis...ni la akibat suka menangguh kerja...huhuhu...okaylah...i bukannya nak cerita pasal tu...tapi nak cerita pasal Maybelline Lasting Drama Gel EyeLiner...hari tu i jalan-jalan dalam watson...biasanya kalau masuk dalam watson or guardian memang suka sangat tengok-tengok bahagian make up...ntah camne i pun terpikat dgn Maybelline Lasting Drama Gel EyeLiner tu...i memang suka sangat..sebelum ni takut jugak nak pakai gel eyeliner sebab takut comot...sekali tu memang senang giler...wa cakap sama lu...hehehe...smooth sangat masa nak apply...lepas tu cepat kering...walaupun pakai comot-comot pun maklum la pagi-pagi nak pergi kerja nak cepat kan...

ni lah hasilnya...

memang nampak lain kan...padahal tambah eyeliner je;-)

so u all...pada yang berminat, pegi lah cari dekat watson or guardian...even kat carrefour pun ada...harganya hanya RM39.90...masa i beli kat watson tu ada 10% diskaun...okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye

Avon

2009-10-16T17:32:00.005+08:00

Salam u all...lama betul i tak update blog kan...quite busy la lately...actually ada gak rasa nak update...tapi takde idea pulak...biasanya time driving dalam traffic jam tu banyak pulak idea...tapi bila klik kat new post tu hilang semua idea...

tadi lunch hour i pegi Carrefour Ampang...tengah-tengah dok merayap tu dapat la brochure avon...dia tulis beli barang harga RM15 ke atas boleh jadik ahli...boleh dapat katalog dgn beg free...i pun ok je la kan...so i bought a lip liner (memang tengah carik pun) dgn eye liner (utk my colleague)..dua barang baru 19.60 lepas tolak harga ahli...memang berbaloi baloi....i pun tengok la katalog dia...i memang ada satu hobi yang suka tengok katalog walaupun tak membeli....satu kepuasan la kalau dapat tengok katalog ni....avon ni memang banyak barang make up...harga pun reasonable...rasanya ramai dah tau brand Avon ni kan...i'm planning to try this product...mane yang i rasa okay, insyaAllah i buat review kat sini ye...boleh la share info...and to those yang nak beli barang avon boleh la inform i ok, harga boleh dirunding;-) i pun takde la nak buat beriya-riya...saje je untuk beli barang sendiri...okaylah...tu je pun nak cerita....pada yang celebrate deepavali, Happy Deepavali....pada kawan-kawan yang lain, selamat menjamu selera di open house...hehehhe...talk to u later gals...bye

Free Toolbar Icons, Images

2009-10-13T16:11:00.003+08:00

Hi u all....masa tengah-tengah nak carik icon yang sesuai for my system development work, i came accross this website....memang cool la...maybe ada yang dah pernah jumpa n pakai...sesuai untuk system developer, web designer and even for blogger;-) pendek kata semua la boleh pakai...hehehhe..
the url is http://www.freeiconsweb.com/

tak dapat nak tulis panjang-panjang...busy sikit la u all...nanti ada masa kita cerita-ceriti ek...talk to u later...bye

Mengamuk tak tentu pasal

2009-10-09T11:50:00.002+08:00

Salam u all...sihat ke hari ni?mesti u all happy je sebab dah hari jumaat kan...esok cuti;-)
actually untuk hari yang baik ni i taknak la cerita benda yang tak best kan...but i need to express my feeling here...kalau tengok title tu mesti suspen je kan...bukan i yang mengamuk...ada orang lain yang mengamuk...benda ni jadi petang semalam dekat my office...fyi my office ni ada division untuk recruit orang for our client...tak payah la bagitau company ape kan tapi syarikat elektronic la...nak dijadikan cerita on of the promoter ni datang mengamuk kat our office...mengamuk pasal epf...padahal boss i masukkan epf..kalau tak masuk, i pun mengamukkan...cumanya sometimes ada la bulan yang boss i masukkan tak on time...contohnya bulan september tak masuk but on october dia masukkan for 2 months...i rasa banyak jugak company yang buat camtu...for me, as long duit masuk i tak kisah la...malas nak bising-bising kan...ok sambung balik cerita pasal perempuan tu...dia ni datang pastu menengking-nengking my colleague(HR)...boss i takde pulak tu...i memang kesian la kat my colleague tu so i pun nak jadik hero la kan...sebab benda yang perempuan tu nak marah memang tak masuk akal...dia tanya nape banyak kosong...padahal yang kosong tu bahagian dividen...of course la ruangan pekerja n majikan tu kosong...patutnya tengok la bahagian caruman...haiyyoooooo...i pun nak tolong explain...i cakap baik-baik boleh ke tunjuk statement tu sebab i nak explain kan...pastu ape dia jawab dengan mata merah, suara tinggi...dia cakap "takkan nak explain lagi sekali, statement ni dah lama ada kan xxx(my colleague)...takkan tak tengok kot"...uishh..masa tu dah membara dah...then i cakap la "i division IT bukannya HR...saje nak tolong explain bila dengar bising-bising"...pastu dia cakap ape tau yang buatkan i hangin..."saya tengah panas ni, baik awak pegi buat kerja awak..nanti dengan awak-awak sekali saya marah"...amboiii...sedap betul bahasa dia...siap tangan dok angkat-angkat depan muka i...kalau cakap baik-baik tu i boleh la accept kan..ni menengking macam singa lapar tu....last-last i blah la...malas nak gaduh dengan orang yang cetek pemikiran dia...nanti kita pun jadik macam dia...rasanya kalau i ni hulk memang dah tukar jadik hijau dah masa tu...ape punya orang la kan tak tau adab...dah la masuk office orang pastu marah tak tentu pasal...then bila bos i balik boleh pulak cakap baik-baik...nape tak tengking je bos tu..boleh tolong marahkan untuk we all sekali...hehehhee...tulah...kesimpulan dari kejadian tu, jangan la kita marah tak tentu pasal...kalau kita nak komplen pun boleh je cakap baik-baik...then dengar la explaination kan...ni orang nak explain pun tak boleh...bila kita dah tinggi kan suara dekat orang lain, orang tu akan ingat sampai bila-bila...i sampai hari ni kalau cerita balik memang bengang tau...pastu memang kena sumpah seranah la perempuan tu dengan i belakang-belakang...tak pasal-pasal pahala puasa sunat i berkurangan...okaylah u all...yang baik amik jadik kan teladan, yang buruk jadikkan sempadan okay...talk to u later...bye...

Kisah Sofea

2009-10-07T14:40:00.006+08:00

Salam my dear friends...lama pulak rasanya tak update blog...dah seminggu kan...tetiba kesian pulak tengok tajuk blog tu asyik tajuk sama je...so hari ni i nak update sikit la progress sofea especially on her vocabulary and communication skills;-)

Umur sofea sekarang ni nak masuk 2 tahun 8 bulan...mulut dia memang becokkk sangat...kekadang ada gak yang tanya sofea ni ikut siapa...mommy dengan daddy dua-dua jenis tak banyak cakap atau dengan kata lain berat mulut la...tapi sofea cakap macam bertih jagung...and sometimes orang macam terkejut la sebab cara sofea cakap tu macam budak dah 3 tahun...i rasa ramai jugak budak-budak sebaya sofea yang banyak cakapkan...

aksi sofea yang tak boleh duduk diam

Lagi satu kelebihan sofea yang membuatkan sejuk perut i mengandungkan sofea dia memang cepat sangat tangkap...kita cakap sekali je dia boleh ingat...kadang-kadang i dah lupa dah tetiba dia pulak yang bercerita..so bila dia cepat tangkap, memang senang jugak la nak ajar dia ABC, colors, shapes, 123, menyanyi and so on...mudah-mudahan sampai besar la dia cepat tangkap nak belajar ni...jangan cepat tangkap benda yang negatif sudah...aminnnnnn...doa tu...hehehe

Sofea pun dah faham kalau i nak mintak tolong apa-apa terutama sekali kalau nak mintak tolong ambik kan barang-barang untuk adief...cakap sekali je dah paham...sofea memang sayang betul dengan adief...kalau orang-orang selain dr mommy, daddy, atuk, nan, tokma, tokbah, her uncles n aunties yang pegang adief memang dengar suara dia jelah menjerit...biasanya dia cakap "jangan...jangan...tu mommy nye"...nanti dia suruh la i ambik adik dia balik...selagi i tak ambik selagi tu dia marah sampai bergenang air mata dia...sayang adief ye sofea...nanti adief dah besar jangan gaduh-gaduh tau...

Lagi satu sofea memang suka sangat menyanyi...i pun suka la melayan dia...ada sekali tu ada lagu aliff sattar(OIAM) yang please please please tu kan kat radio...i pun nyanyi la kat sofea
me: please please please, kamu jgn nakal...nanti mommy babap, baru sofea tauuu
sofea: plishhh plishh plishh, kamu jgn nakal...nanti thofea babap...nanti thofea babap...nanti thofea babap...nanti thofea babap...~pastu gelak-gelak~
me: ~tergelak-tergelak dalam kereta tu~
then ada satu lagu dia suka nyanyi gak...lagu cicak...dia belajar dari kak nasiah dia(mil's maid)macam tau-tau je mommy takut cicak...cerita pasal cicak ni,sofea ni berani jugak dgn cicak...ada sekali tu ada cicak kat bawah counter kat my kitchen..i pun jerit la cakap ada cicak dekat hubby...sekali sofea yang datang dulu...
sofea: nape??nape mommy??ada cicakk ke??
pastu dia terus je masukkan kepala dia bawah counter...hahahhahaha...thofea thofea...
sambung balik pasal lagu cicak tu...ni ada video dia..dengar la dia nyanyi...abaikan suara latar tu ye...

itulah sofea buah hati pengarang jantung i, one of my bestfriends...sofea, mommy sayangggg sangat dengan sofea tau...mommy doakan sofea bahagia dunia dan akhirat ye sayang....muahhh muahhh muahhhh...okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye

Adief : 5 months old

2009-09-29T15:44:00.004+08:00

Salam semua.....i masih lagi belum ada mood nak cite pasal beraya...tak tau nak cerita sebenarnya...tapi entry kali ni nak cerita pasal adief...actually on hari raya pertama tu genap la adief 5 bulan...kejap je dah 5 bulan buah hati mommy tu...sekarang ni adief memang suka sangat menyembur...air liur pun banyak je keluar...agaknye teething kot...tapi tengok takde pulak gigi nak keluar...kalau ikutkan before dia 5 bulan, ada la dalam dua kali kot dia 'ter'meniarap...tu pun memang i tak pernah tengok...mama yang cerita adief meniarap...tapi selagi i tak nampak memang tak puas hati la...sekali tu masa raya ke-3 tengah berjalan beraya rumah my auntie, tetiba je dia meniarap...banyak pulak supporter adief...siap bersorak lagi...hehehhe...lucky you have a very supportive family adief...tu baru boleh meniarap kan...belum lagi masuk lumba lari ke...hehehhe..

kalau compare antara sofea dgn adief, memang adief cepat la meniarap...masa sofea dulu lagi beberapa hari nak masuk 6 bulan baru meniarap...risau jugak masa tu...tapi alhamdulillah, lambat-lambat sofea meniarap pun tapi bab-bab lain cepat jugak la...especially skill bercakap dia...heheheh...oklah...ni ada gambar adief...talk to u later...bye

gambar bertiga...mane sofea??

sibuk berlari...nak ajak bergambar pun tak mo

ni kakak thofea yang good girl...sayang betul dekat adief..kalau orang lain nak amik adief memang marah betul dia sampai bergenang air mata

Gambar Raya 2009

2009-09-28T16:46:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum my dear friends...so camne raya?hari ni i baru start kerja lepas bercuti selama seminggu...rasa berat sangat nak pergi kerja sampai terbabas la pukul 10 baru sampai office...hehehe...seb baik bos sporting;-)seronok spend time dengan my family...nak kata beraya beriya sangat tu takde la...rasanya sampai raya ke-3 je meriah...yang lain-lain banyak lepak kat rumah je...hari ni lom ada mood lagi nak cerita panjang-panjang pasal raya...so i just upload a few pictures during hari raya with my beloved family...enjoyyy...talk to u later..bye
p/s: shana n syarul takde dalam gambar sebab beraya kat taiping

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri

2009-09-17T15:35:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum u all,

Di sini i ingin mengambil kesempatan untuk mengucapkan Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri dan Maaf Zahir Batin...makan lemang dengan ketupat tu berpada-pada ye...takut nanti perut tu terkejut pulak terus upset...pada yang pulang beraya di kampung, berhati-hati lah di jalan raya..jadi la pemandu berhemat dan biar lambat asalkan selamat....pastu jangan la main mercun buatan sendiri..karang padah akibatnya...elok-elok ada 10 jari nanti tinggal 8 je...apa lagi ek nak bagi ucapan....lagi satu sebelum berangkat meninggalkan rumah, pastikan semua pintu dan tingkap telah dikunci...takut nanti ada pulak tetamu yang tak diundang...check balik baju-baju raya suami, anak-anak dah cukup...karang elok-elok pagi raya tak jumpa pulak sampin suami...sian suami tak dapat nak bergaya...dah la pakai sampin pun time kawin dgn time raya jek...hehehhee...akhir kata i ingin menyusun 10 jari memohon kemaafan seandainya ada tersalah kata, tersilap bahasa ok...

pada mama dan babah(kalau diorang baca la), phira nak minta maaf jika terdapat kesilapan yang tak sengaja atau disengajakan...halalkan makan minum phira n family..bawak kereta tu baik-baik tau bah...kirim salam kat orang-orang gurun...nanti raya ke-3 kami datanggombak...kita jalan beraya sama-sama ye...i love both of u...

pada adik-adik ku, nanti kat kampung jangan lupa tolong mama...mama tak bape sihat tu...duit raya korang pas balik sini baru bagi ye...disebabkan kegawatan ekonomi, rasanya tak dapat la diupkan jumlahnye...maybe dikurangkan...hahhaahhahhaha...jaga mama dengan babah..

okaylah..panjang pulak ucapannya...macam la tak jumpa in person nanti...entry ni diakhiri dengan gambar adief try songkok baru yang dibeli oleh daddy kat jln tar...comel kan...aci tak puji anak sendiri...hehehhehe...talk to u later gals...bye

E.X.O.R.A

2009-09-16T14:46:00.005+08:00

Assalamualaikum u all...sihat semua...mesti semua dalam mood raya kan...dok count down bape hari nak cuti...bila u all balik kampung?so pada yang pulang ke kampung tu have a safe journey ye...berhati-hati di jalan raya...for me n family, memang beraya kat kl la tahun ni...actually both parents memang stay kat kl...my parents kat gombak tapi tahun ni diorang beraya kat gurun, kedah dulu...raya kedua balik kl...so boleh la berjalan raya my side on 3rd raya...my in law pulak kat jalan semarak...diorg memang takde kampung...paling jauh pun gi semenyih rumah my hubby's ayah mat...mesti u all ingat tak meriah kan raya kat kl...bagi i meriah je sebab eventhough bukan kat kampung, tapi relatives memang ramai kat kl jugak..so memang happening la...takde la i pegi zoo negara or muzium negara ke masa hari raya;-) okaylah cerita pasal balik kampung dan berjalan raya ni saja lah nak share berita gembira dengan u all...after almost 4 months we placed an order, it's finally here(quote from hubby..hehee)

dengan model EXORA

kitorang booked EXORA ni since i dalam pantang lagi...anak baru dua dah nak pakai mpv kan...ngengada betul....hahhahha...tapi kalau u all tengok keadaan kereta we all sebelum ni memang penuh...letak 2 carseat terus orang lain tak boleh tumpang...so dah ada exora ni boleh la orang lain tumpang time nak beraya kan;-) exora sampai hari sabtu lepas...hubby buat surprise kat i...salesman tu pegi ambik dia kat klia...dia boleh pulak tipu i cakap balik naik cab...tengok-tengok bila nak gi fetch hubby kat rumah in law, nampak ada exora baru...punya la happy...ingatkan takde harapan nak dapat before raya...orang yang paling excited of coz la budak thofea tu...dari tempat driver dia boleh memanjat sampai ke belakang...awal-awal lagi dia dah booked seat belakang sekali...senang dia nak tengok barney...overall memang puas hati la...i tak boleh nak compare kan dengan other mpvs sebab yang lain tak pernah naik...lagipun mpv buatan malaysia je yang we all mampu...tapi walaupun buatan tempatan, memang tip top la bagi i...apa-apa pun alhamdulillah, Allah permudahkan semuanya...so pada kawan-kawan yang beraya dengan kereta baru, happy happy jugak, tapi jangan pulak langgar speed limit...maklum la kereta baru ni masuk lubang pun takde bunyi, bawak laju pun tak terasa...hehehhe..okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye

ambik tempat memasing

daddy

sofea

adief

mommy

3 reasons why i'm so excited...

2009-09-15T12:12:00.003+08:00

to celebrate hari raya this year:

no 1

new family member

no 2

meet our family n relatives

no 3

of coz sofea n jeng jeng jeng...hehehhe

Hotel Singgahsana + Idola saya

2009-09-14T11:22:00.005+08:00

Hi u all...how's ur weekend?mesti ramai yang pegi shopping raya lagi kan...maklumlah weekend yang terakhir bulan puasa...next weekend dah raya...kalau tak pun mesti sibuk mengemas rumah kan...ingat tak my previous entry i ada mentioned about berbuka puasa kat hotel singgahsana...memang seronok la sebab dapat buka puasa beramai-ramai dengan my colleague...the foods were okay...tak mo la komen-komen sangat kan...dapat makan free pun dah cukup nikmatnya;-)kebetulan masa tu PERKIM ada buat event...so cerita pasal PERKIM punya event ni, memang rezeki i la dapat berjumpa dengan my idol...siapa ye idola i ni...jeng jeng jeng...orangnye ialah TUN MAHATHIR..punya la excited dapat jumpa...seriously i memang tak sangka dapat jumpa tun in person...siap dapat salam pulak tu...mimpi jadi kenyataan...i tau ada la segelintir orang yang tak suka dengan tun...but for me, i memang respect and sayangggg sangat dekat tun....macam-macam tun dah buat untuk negara kita yang tercinta masa dia jadik PM...i wish i could be like him...
yang kelakarnya masa nampak je kelibat tun, terus i call my hubby...suruh dia teka i jumpa siapa...mestilah dia tak dapat agakkan..so i bagi clue lelaki yang membuatkan hati i berdebar-debar...pastu dia teka siapa tau u all...FAIZAL TAHIR...hahahahahha..apa la hubby tu...mana ada hati i berdebar-debar kalau jumpa faizal tahir...hati i lagi berdebar-debar nak tunggu hubby balik dari miri;-) so ni ada i post kan sekali pictures masa kat hotel singgahsana...gambar foods memang takde ye sebab i memang tak pandai nak amik gambar makanan...elok makanan sedap-sedap, bila i amik jadik tak menyelerakan pulak...lepas dapat salam dengan tun mahathir, memang i asyik senyum je...i can't stop smiling...kalau tak percaya tengok la gambar....hehehe...enjoy the pics ye walaupun blur...talk to u later...bye
bergambar dengan bos-bos yang baik hatiramai orang beraturtengah beratur nak salam dengan Tun Mahathir
tengok la muka i yang ceria abissss tu...menyeringaiii jek...hahahah
p/s: hubby dah balik dari miri;-D

Tak sangka

2009-09-11T16:10:00.003+08:00

Hi u all...pejam celik pejam celik dah 21 hari kita berpuasa kan...tinggal lebih kurang seminggu je lagi nak beraya...mesti u all dah banyak wat preparation kan...hari ni takde ape sangat pun nak cerita...cuma saje nak post kan gambar adief...

tak sangka budak kudut ni

dah jadik camni...hehehhe...
okaylah u all...hari ni i buka dekat Hotel Singgahsana..bos belanja..rezeki rezeki...selamat berbuka n have a nice weekend ye...talk to u later..bye

Happy 31st Birthday to my love

2009-09-10T13:25:00.004+08:00

Today is my hubby's 31st birthday...i feel a bit sad because we can't celebrate together..but it's ok, we still can sing him the birthday song and wish him happy birthday through phone...we still can give him the birthday present, we still can celebrate his birthday and we still can give him a lots of hugs and kisses after he coming back on Saturday...looking forward to see you dear...better late than never rite..

Thank you sweetheart
For being such a wonderful man
Everything has been great
Since our marriage began

You're everything a wife
Could want and more
You're a wonderful husband
That I truly adore
I'm glad that I married you
Happy Birthday to you
(credit to google but i really mean it;-))
From sofea n adief,
Happy birthday daddy...we love you so much..you're the greatest dad in the world;-)

BTW, today is my beloved mother in law's birthday too...Happy Birthday mama...thank you for everthing you've done for us...we love you...

My Sahur

2009-09-09T14:17:00.003+08:00

Hi my dear friends...hari ni i nak buat entry pasal sahur la..orang lain dah banyak cerita pasal sahur since 1st Ramadhan lagi kan...i baru terhegeh-hegeh nak cerita..padahal dah 19 Ramadhan pun...actually saje nak share ape yang i ambil masa sahur...memang cepat dan pantas je preparation...kalau terbangun pukul 5.15am pun still sempat makan sahur yang mengenyang kan...tak mo cite panjang, u all tengok je la gambar ye...tapi gambar i google je....i makan cereal...tak kisah la brand apa pun...tapi yang paling i suka brand Post...especially yang ada almond or pecan...i memang makan cereal tu dengan air milo sebab susu susah sikit tekak i nak terima...tapi hubby i makan nasi la...and of coz i yang prepare for him...kesian pulak kat dia kalau nak ikut sahur macam i...tapikan frankly speaking, memang kenyang la sampai waktu buka..bunyi perut sikit-sikit tu biasalakan..makan nasi pun perut bunyi ye tak??hehhee..disebabkan i sahur tu je, alhamdulillah i managed to loose weight...walaupun tak banyak tapi ada la perubahan...kalau tengok sendiri kat cermin memang still rasa takde perubahan pun sejak bersalin...tapi bila i pakai jeans zaman sebelum pregnantkan sofea, ye sofea tau bukan adief sbb sebelum pregnantkan adief i masih banyak lemak...bila dah boleh pakai jeans tu baru percaya ada perubahan...alhamdulillahhh...sekarang ni ada la orang tu nak tiru i makan sahur tu...hehehe...semoga orang itu pun berjaya lose weight ye;-)

sekarang ni i masih mood rindukan my hubby...cepat la hari sabtu...tak sabar nak ajak sofea n adief buat family hug...okaylah dear...i nak kena pegi office client ni..kalau sempat nak wat site visit ke maju junction...hehehhe...talk to u later...bye

We miss u daddy!!

2009-09-08T16:23:00.004+08:00

Salam u all...hari ni dah 18 Ramadhan...cepat betul masa berlalu...tinggal seminggu lebih je lagi nak raya..yippieeee!!

actually hubby i sekarang ni takde kat kl...dia outstation ke miri...dah seminggu hubby pegi..insyaAllah he'll be back on friday or saturday...masa dapat berita yang dia kena pegi outstation lama tu memang sedih la...pastu pening kepala macam mana nak handle sorang-sorang ni kan...biasanya kalau hubby outstation pun, during weekend mesti dia ada..so on weekdays tu i pinjam my MIL's maid untuk teman malam...bila nak pegi kerja tu hantar la nasiah(MIL's maid), sofea n adief kat rumah in law...kalau boleh i taknak la bawak nasiah balik on weekend sebab mesti mama nak pakai dia kan...so lepas fikir punya fikir, i decided nak ajak ejam(my bro) tido memandangkan dia je yang available...shana mesti taknak sebab mana dia nak letak syarul kan...adiq dgn mai pulak kat hostel memasing...i pun ajak la ejam...sekali tu dia kata dia suruh his gf yang teman kan i anak beranak..i pun okaylah..sofea punya la suka auntie dia tu....terima kasih banyak-banyak ye watie sebab teman akak, sofea n adief...jangan serik tau datang lagi walaupun kena buli kaw-kaw punya dengan sofea...dah la on sunday tu kena masak ayam masa merah ek...hehehhee...nanti boleh datang lagi dengar sofea ckp auntie, auntie,ni thofea;-)

sekarang ni i mengira hari je tunggu hubby balik...sofea pulak bila tanya daddy pegi mane, dia jawab daddy pegi mighiiiii....saje je dia tekankan bunyi 'r' tu...tengok dia macam steady je..bila tanya nak call daddy tak..dia cakap taknak...agaknye dia sedih la tu...biasanya bila daddy dia balik outstation, memang muka dia ceria sangat...memang priceless la...even kalau nampak daddy balik kerja pun dia ceria...kalau nampak mommy mesti dia tanya daddy mane...sian mommy...takpe la..apa-apa pun mommy tau sofea sayang mommy jugakkan...malam-malam nak tido carik mommy jugak...lately bila dia mengantuk mesti dia bisik kat i, thofea nak tido dengan mommy:-D

to my dear hubby, we miss u so much...okaylah friends, talk to u later...bye

Baby Ring Sling

2009-09-04T15:13:00.005+08:00

Salam semua...sihat ke?hari ni i sakit tengkuk la...tak tau kenapa..rasanya masa sahur tadi okay...terkehel time bila tah...okaylah..i nak cerita pasal Baby Ring Sling...masa i tengah pregnantkan adief, i ada la beli baby ring sling ni...saje la konon-konon macam cool la kan...hehehhe..i suka tengok mommies bawak baby diorg pakai baby sling ni...i beli yang jenis macam gambar bawah ni... pastu bila adief dah lahir i cuma pakai dalam 2 kali je kot...sebabnya rasa macam tak best pulak...memang plan nak jual je sbb i nak beli baby carrier yang biasa-biasa tu je...yelah beli mahal-mahal tapi elok je terlipat dalam almarikan...tapi semalam i saje la google video cara-cara nak pakai baby ring sling ni...rupanya dalam youtube punya la banyak post kan video...meh i letak kat sini salah satu contoh...

senang kan...balik rumah semalam memang i excited sangat nak cuba kat adief..so nilah hasil-hasilnya...sorry la gambar gelap sebab pakai camera hp je... cool tak???hehehhehe...kesimpulannya, i tak jadik jual...tak sabar nak outing bawak adief pakai baby ring sling ni;-) okaylah u all...penutup entry ni gambar adief tido...tengoklah jari dia yang montel tu...rasa nak gigit jek...hehhee..last but not least, have a nice long weekend pada yang dapat cuti on monday...yang tak dapat tu have a nice weekend too;-)talk to u later...bye

1 Malaysia : Malaysia 1

2009-09-03T12:46:00.004+08:00

Hi dear...camne puasa so far?hari ni dah hari ke 13 Ramadhan...pejam celik pejam celik je kan...alhamdulillah i masih full lagi puasa...since pregnant sampai dah bersalin ni and adief pun dah 4 1/2 months, cik 'P' lom datang menjengah lagi...bukan pregnant lagi ye kawan-kawan...hehhee...maybe sebab still breastfeed kan adief...hopefully dapat la puasa penuh tahun ni...cukup la i gigih ganti puasa sebelum ni...oklah, hari ni i nak cerita pasal contest mencipta lagu satu malaysia kat hotfm...rasanya pendengar setia hotfm sure dah tau siapa pemenang dia kan...pada yang tak tau tu, RM25k tu goes to:
Lagu: Malaysia Satu
Pencipta lagu: Audi Mok
Penulis lirik: Nurfatimah
Penyanyi: Faizal Tahir
i memang suka lagu tu...tapi tak vote pun...masa 1st time dengar memang suka sbb lagu tu ada unsur march punya drumbeat...dah la penyanyi dia faizal tahir...my fav male singer...kalau hubby baca sure dia berbulu...hahahhahaha...i suka suara dia jelah yang...hehehe...kalau nampak faizal tahir kat tv sure hubby sound suka la tu...hahahahaha...lawak lawak...ni i letak lagu tu ek...

credit to youtube...tapi yg tak syoknye nape dia letak gambar faizal tahir tengah menganga gitu...tak encem la...
rasa bersemangat pulak dengar lagu ni...enjoy ye...i pun nak dengar lagi...talk to u later...bye

Weekend Stories

2009-09-02T14:27:00.004+08:00

Hi u all...mesti semua dah start menghitung jam nak tunggu time balikkan...sementara nak tunggu office hour abiss biar la i cerita dekat u all ape aktiviti my family masa merdeka day...ooo before that nak cerita dulu ape i buat last saturday...pagi-pagi buta lepas sahur tu lepak-lepak jap tengok tv sementara tunggu subuh...then lepas subuh adief nangis...bagi la dia susu...pastu memang dia tak tido...i plan dengan shana nak pegi jalan TAR on that day...so pukul 6.30am tu i dah mandikan adief sbb nak tinggalkan dia dengan hubby...terkebil-kebil la adief kena mandikan...tapi lepas mandi tu dia tido..best la tu badan dah fresh...i pun siap-siap la lepas tu...dalam pukul 9am sofea tak bangun lagi...nak kena antar dia pegi rumah tokma...tokma volunteer nak jaga sofea...i saje je wat bising, so sofea pun bangun la...terus angkut dia dgn tak mandi lagi ke rumah my parents kat gombak..excited sofea...lepas dah drop kan sofea terus la ambik shana and shoot ke kl...sampai jalan SOGO dalam pukul 11 am...dah penuh dah parking...awal betul diorang tu pegi...ingatkan i dah abis awal dah sampai...rupenya ada lagi awal..hehehe...syok gak la berjalan...dapat la rembat beberapa ketul barang for hubby and myself...anak-anak punya tak boleh beli dah...banyak dah beli hari tu...abiss shopping dalam pukul 3...terus balik rumah...petang pulak dalam pukul 6pm terus pegi rumah mama untuk buka bersama-sama family tercinta...abiss cerita hari saturday..

view from our balcony

sambung balik cerita merdeka day...pagi-pagi lagi dengar bunyi helikopter kat langit...sekali tengok nampak la 14 buah heli (i think so)bawak bendera...takyah pegi parlimen pun boleh nampak...hehehe...actually takde ape pun aktiviti...duduk rumah je pun melayan anak-anak...petang pulak dalam pukul 4 lebih we all keluar pegi alpha angle nak pegi mph dgn beli barang mentah untuk masak...i plan dalam pukul 5pm tu keluar dari alpha angle..tapi terbabas gak...sampai rumah dalam pukul 6.10pm...bayangkan satu benda pun tak masak lagi...i pun bersilat la..kononnya nak masak sayur campur, masak lemak cili padi sardin dengan sotong goreng tepung...sekali sempat masak 2 jenis je...masak lemak cili padi sardin dengan sayur campur ala cukup rasa maggi...sotongnye i campak je dalam sayur campur tu...alhamdulillah sempat gak masak untuk berbuka...okaylah...tu je pun nak cerita...selamat berbuka...talk to u later...bye

adief

sofea

masak lemak cili api sardin...yummy!! sayur campur ala sedap rasa maggi + sotong

air sirap + ice cream soda special...hubby speciality;-)

jemput la makan u all...i dah sendukkan...hehehhee

Macam-macam Sofea

2009-09-01T15:37:00.004+08:00

Hi u all, camne cuti panjang?best?mesti la best kan...actually entry kali ni nak cerita pasal sofea...masa tengah tido malam tadi kan, tetiba i dikejutkan dengan bunyi gedegung gedegang...pastu diikuti tangisan sofea...kuat jugak dia nangis...memang terkejut la i dari tido...suspen tak???masa tu gelap la kan...i pun raba-raba la tempat my hubby tido...sekali tu takde tau...lagi la i suspen...ingatkan hubby jatuh katil terhempap sofea...oohh..lupa pulak nak bagitau...sofea memang tido kat bawah...bentangkan tilam khas untuk dia...adief pulak tido dalam baby cot...saje nak biasakan dari kecik tido tempat masing-masing...takde la kacau mommy n daddy punya tempat;-)ok, sambung balik cerita...lepas tu i terus la panic and bukak lampshade...tengok hubby terkial-kial buat something dekat bawah sambil sofea menangis-nangis...rupanya sofea gi masuk bawah katil...pastu agaknye dia terjaga, dia nak bangun la...tu yang bunyi gedegung gedegang tu...sian anak mommy...tengok jam masa tu pukul 4am...angkat dia naik atas katil sambil peluk dia..hubby tido bawah...hehehe...ingatkan sofea terus tido la...dah dia ajak bercakap pulak dah...memang sampai pagi dia tak tido..orang sahur dia pun segar je...agaknye terkejut kot masuk bawah katil...dah pukul 7 lebih baru dia tertido depan tv...tengok muka dia nangis masa hubby baru kuarkan dia dari katil tu memang kesian...tapi nak tergelak pun ada jugak...hehehe...sofea sofea...macam-macam la thofea ni...okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye
nilah budak yang masuk bawah katil tu...hahahahhaha...sian anak mommy

Selamat Menyambut Hari Kemerdekaan ke-52

2009-08-28T14:09:00.003+08:00

Merdeka!!Merdeka!!Merdeka!!

Salam u all...disini i ingin mengambil kesempatan untuk mengucapkan selamat menyambut Hari Kemerdekaan ke-52...sape tau ape tema tahun ni??mesti u all dah tau kan...pada yg terlupa atau tak ingat tu, tema tahun ini ialah "Rakyat Didahulukan, Pencapaian Diutamakan"

Mari la kita sama-sama berdoa semoga negara kita yang tercinta ni sentiasa aman dan damai...marilah kita bersatu padu tak kira agama dan bangsa demi kesejahteraan bersama...tak mo la gaduh-gaduh ok...lagi satu harapan saya supaya wabak H1N1 ni dapat ditangani secepat mungkin...selagi H1N1 ni masih lagi berleluasa, selagi tu rasa kurang selamat sikit..aminnnn..

last but not least Happy Holiday gals n guys out there...talk to u later...bye

BEAUTIFUL BABY SEARCH CONTEST "Looking for Beautiful Prince and Princess"

2009-08-26T13:43:00.007+08:00

Salam u all...hari tu i ada baca blog errynn...errynn memang rajin sangat masuk contest...dalam banyak-banyak contest tu i bebetul tertarik dengan contest BEAUTIFUL BABY SEARCH CONTEST "Looking for Beautiful Prince and Princess"...yg organize contest ni ialah mommy_zara...mommy_zara, u have such a beautiful angel;-) hehehe..sempat lagi kasik ucapan..
contest ni terbuka kepada newborn babies till 3 years old toddlers...just post ur kid's photo..if u don't have kid, u can post ur niece's/nephew's/brother's/sister's photos..maknenye bukan la untuk orang yang ada anak je...contest bermula dari 11 Ogos 2009 sehingga 31 Ogos 2009...kalau u all nak join, click je dekat link atas tu ye...i really interested nak join this contest sebab banyak sangat ambik gambar sofea...so why not mencuba nasib kan...kalah menang i tak kisah...at least i boleh tambah kenalan...betul tak???betul betul betul...hehehe...okaylah u all...dalam banyak-banyak gambar dalam memory card camera i ni, i chose this photo of sofea...aksi spontan sofea yang nampak ayu dengan cheongsamnye.. Nama: Adriana Sofea
Umur: 2 tahun 6 bulan
Gambar kat atas tu diambil masa sofea berumur 1 tahun 6 bulan kat rumah tengah bersantai bersama keluarga...baju cheongsam tu beli kat tesco..murah jek...

Gambar sofea dengan mommy pulak ambik kat taman klcc...happy sangat bawak anak jalan-jalan bila tengok diorang enjoy...

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yang bawah ni pulak i nak post gambar adief pulak...kalau puan penganjur izinkan la ye...kalau tak qualify pun it's ok for me..saje je nak post baru adil dan saksama kan...hehehe..
Nama: Adief Shafiy
Umur: 4 bulan
Gambar kat atas tu diambil masa adief berumur 3 bulan masa tengah bersantai dengan mommy, daddy n kakak sofea
Gambar adief dengan daddy tu diambil dekat hyatt kuantan...percutian pertama lepas kelahiran adief...suka sangat gambar tu sebab nampak sincere...

Okaylah...i rasa tu je kot...semua syarat-syarat penyertaan i dah ikut...kalau ada rezeki, alhamdulillah...anyway, thanks to puan penganjur mommy_zara sebab buat contest ni...dapat la i update blog;-) last but not least, salam perkenalan ye...talk to u later...bye

Buah hati pengarang jantung

2009-08-24T16:00:00.003+08:00

Hi u all...camne dah 3 hari menjalani ibadah puasa?bila tengok blog kengkawan banyak yang cerita pasal menu sahur dan berbuka puasa...tengok gambar-gambar makanan tu memang merembes la asid dalam perut...tapi bukan nak kata ape la kan...biasanya time puasa memang suka sangat tengok gambar makanan...makruh tak u all??i pun nak cerita la sikit ape menu untuk buka selama dua hari berpuasa...hari pertama berpuasa tu i buka kat rumah my parents kat gombak...mama request nak buat potluck..yelah mesti mama dah tak larat nak masak banyak-banyak...so memasing bawak la masakan memasing...i buat ayam masak kicap...seronok la buka puasa beramai-ramai..memang meriah la..kecoh pun iye jugak..memasing kalut nak ambik lauk kan...adief pulak elok je azan maghrib, dia merengek-rengek pulak...mommy sempat makan kurma je dah kena buat kan susu adief...tapi dia tak mau pulak minum...bila dukung senyum je mat kool tu...bila letak dia ngeh ngeh ngeh...amboiii...adief dah pandai nak attention sekarang ye...so mlm tu hubby buat terawih kat surau situ...bertolak balik dari rumah mama pukul 12 malam...tunggu sampai cerekarama abisss...then singgah kfc drive-thru sbb teringin nak makan shrimp stix tu...sekali tu takde...budak kfc tu cakap sampai pukul 12 mlm je...masa beli tu pukul 12.30am...tak sempat la merasa...abis cerita pasal buka hari sabtu...hari ahad pulak i masak...tu pun start masak pukul 6 lebih sbb ada hal sikit sebelum tu..beli ikan gerut nak buat masak 3 rasa...then goreng kobis dengan ayam...letak maggi secukup rasa...memang sedap la...tak payah nak bubuh bawang, garam...pecah rahsiakan...hehehe...tapi i tak kisah...gambar-gambar makanan memang tak ambik sebab tak dan la terus dah azan...nak goreng telur dadar pun tak sempat...nasib baik hubby jenis tak kisah...ni ada gambar with my buah hati pengarang jantung...

Adief : 4 months old

2009-08-20T13:04:00.003+08:00

Hari ni genap umur adief 4 bulan..kejap je masa berlalu...dari tengok adief kudut masa kuar dari perut mommy sampai la pipi dia dah tembam...rasanya tak banyak sangat progress dia dari yang i dah update sebelum ni..cuma sekarang dah ada tanda-tanda nak pusing tapi belum sampai meniarap lagi...hobi adief suka main air liur...memang air liur dia dah banyak...pastu adief suka tersenyum..memang pemurah dengan senyuman mat kool ni...kadang-kadang tengah nangis nak susu, bila nampak kita senyum dengan dia, boleh pulak dia berhenti nangis kejap senyum kat kita...pastu sambung nangis balik...hehehe..gerammm...kalau tuka diaper dia tengah malam pun dia boleh tersenyum...harap-harapnye sampai kebesar la pemurah dengan senyuman...baru la maniss je orang tengok kan...hehehe...
my dear adief, mommy + daddy + kakak thofea love u so muchhhh...muah muah muah..

Salam Ramadhan

2009-08-20T12:15:00.004+08:00

pic credit to google

Yahooooo!!!!

Ingat tak entry ni: Puasa Ganti?finally berjaya jugak i abis kan puasa ganti...memang rasa relief sangat sebab sebelum ni risau jugak kalau tak habiss kan..i rasa ada jugak hikmahnye kena ganti banyak-banyak ni lepas dalam pantang...dapat jugak i control makan..kalau time sofea tu memang lepas pantang i makan tak hengat dunia...bila time nak diet je mesti bagi excuse kat diri sendiri nanti nanti la...lama-lama berat pun naik mendadak...time adief ni takde la turun sangat berat...sikit je turun cuma yang penting tak naik mendadak..pastu rasa sihat je bila puasa ni...so untuk celebrate sempena abis ganti puasa, sampai-sampai office je terus gi minum teh ais dekat kedai mamak bawah office ni...lama tu tak dapat minum teh ais mamak ni...sedap tau u all...kalau tak percaya datang la kedai mamak Hafiz Corner kat avenue ampang...siap promote tu...huhuhu...

tahun ni memang i rasa tak sabar sangat nak sambut Ramadhan..tak tau la sebab ape...maybe i tak dapat menjalani puasa masa last Ramadhan...yelah masa tu memang teruk sangat morning sickness...sian tengok hubby masa tu..dia pun macam tak terurus je masa tu..bangun sahur pun sendiri...takpe ye yang, tahun ni kita bangun sahur sama-sama...

dah alang-alang buat entry pasal puasa ni, i nak ambil kesempatan untuk mengucapkan selamat menjalani ibadah puasa di bulan Ramadhan...semoga segala ibadah kita diterima Allah SWT...aminnn

okay guys...talk to u later...bye

Parking - RM50!!!

2009-08-19T14:49:00.003+08:00

Jangan terkejut u all..parking sampai RM50 tu...agak-agak u all kat mane parking yang mahal sampai camtu sekali..okaylah, actually entry ni sambungan dari entry Anniversary Celebration ..kan i ada mention ada cite yang kurang menarik untuk didengar...cite dia camni..biasanya kalau masuk mane-mane shopping mall, hubby akan pass parking ticket to me...i jadik tukang simpan tiket...sekali lepas je dah abiss beronggeng dengan hubby tercinta, i pun nak keluarkan tiket nak bayar kat autopay machine...sekali godek-godek poket beg tu takde..puas la selongkar segala barang tapi takde jugak..masa tu memang dah rasa mesti hilang punya la..agaknya tercicir masa dok keluar masuk my hp sbb nak silent kan masa tengok movie..last-last pegi la kaunter bayar tiket...cakap kat staff situ tiket hilang..dia pun cakap la kena bayar denda RM50...huhuhu...biasanya memang selalu baca kat tiket tu Fine RM50 If you lost the parking ticket...tapi tak sangka la nak jadik benda tu dekat we all...nak tak nak terpaksa la bayar..tapi kan u all, bukan boleh bayar camtu je..kena isi borang dulu..pastu ada security guard escort we all sampai kereta..dah la masa carik kereta tu tetiba hubby bawak jalan salah...agaknye sibuk fikir pasal kena bayar parking mahal...hehehhee...agaknye mesti security guard tu was-was dengan kitorang..sekali bila dah jumpa kereta terus we all buat muka "kitorang bukan pencopet kereta laaaa"..hehehe..tulah..pengajaran..pasni kena letak parking ticket kat poket beg yg khas untuk ticket je...tapi yang kelakar tu, i noticed that hubby tak pass kat i parking ticket gi jusco wangsa maju hari tu...fobia la tu....hahahahhaa...ala yang, baru sekali je tau hilang..jangan la takut:-D

actually bukan la parking sampai RM50..salah i la gi hilangkan tiket sape suruh...okaylah u all...talk to u later...bye

Anniversary celebration

2009-08-17T14:24:00.005+08:00

Hi all...actually ni entry tertunggak...tapi nak jugak masukkan dalam blog ni...last monday hubby n me ambik cuti utk celebrate our 4th anniversary berdua-duaan..pagi-pagi lepas antar sofea and adief dekat rumah in law, terus pegi JPN untuk ambik adief punya mykid...lama dah siap tapi baru sempat ambik...memula plan nak bukak akaun tabung haji untuk adief...tapi bila tengok ramai betul orang dalam tabung haji tu terus tak jadik..lepas dah habis segala urusan, terus la hubby bawak pegi midvalley..tempat yang jarang pegi during weekend sebab sentiasa penuh...bila dah sampai tu naik kat GCS...beli tiket wayang...both of us meman suka tengok wayang...tapi sejak ada anak memang dah jarang la tengok..cuma movie yang betul-betul rasa nak tengok baru la pegi...tu pun kalau ada orang baik hati yang nak look after our kids...biasanya tokma dgn makngah la yang baik hati..we all tengok cerita The Proposal n GI Joe..both stories i suka...lepas dah tengok movie tu terus pegi late lunch kat San Francisco Steakhouse... memang hubby wat reservation untuk both of us je makan kat situ....orang lain tak boleh masuk..romantik tak???hahahaha...just kidding...kebetulan memang kosong kat situ...kitorg je customer...tak ingat la nama menu we all order tu..tapi dua-dua grill combo set...sedap jugak...nyum nyum...lepas dah lunch tu jalan-jalan la carik hadiah masing-masing...hubby n me sejak kawin memang pilih hadiah sendiri...takde surprise surprise punya kecuali last year hubby bagi HP Nokia E71 untuk i...tahun ni tak boleh nak beli yang mahal-mahal sebab nanti ada hadiah yang lagi besar untuk our family yang memerlukan duit;-) so i belikan hubby hadiah toy Transformers : Devastator...hubby memang suka sangat...boleh tambah his toy collection..nanti adief boleh share dengan daddy ye...hehhehee..i pulak mintak jam sebab jam sekarang ni asyik nak tercabut je and i think it's about time to have new watch...hehehe..

Both of us memang happy dapat spent our quality time together..bukan selalu dapat buat camtu...tapikan ada cerita yang tak seronok didengar terjadi...nanti continue kat entry lain ok..tak syok pulak nak cite dalam entry yg happy ni...oklah ye..talk to u later...bye

I wish....

2009-08-13T12:10:00.004+08:00

I could stay at home
I could take care of my kids
I could kiss and hug them whenever I want
I could play with them
I could be around when they sick or cranky

I just wish I could be there for them every single minutes ::sigh::

p/s: bila la agaknye ek

Mari beraerobik bersama sofea

2009-08-11T16:58:00.004+08:00

Sofea memang suka sangat menari..I don't know she inherited it from whom...hahahhaha...tak ngaku tu...yang paling best I tengok dia menari ikut lagu Imagination Movers..hari tu try nak record video tapi dapat sikit je sebab lagu tu dah abiss..dia memang ikut exactly ape yang orang tu buat...jump up, get down, stand up, turn around turn around...heheheh...enjoy betul tengok...

Pastu ada sekali tu dia ajak I masuk bilik...then dia cakap mommy hop..I pun lompat la sekali...rupanya dia suruh I ikut dia hop dari dapur sampai masuk bilik..kalau hari-hari camni memang boleh kurus...tak penat dia..I yang follow kat belakang tu dah tercungap-cungap..memang tak larat u all...yang pelik tu dia maintain je montel walaupun aktif...oklah u all..enjoy the video ye..kalau u all nak joget pun boleh gak;-) talk to u later...bye

p/s: cuba play both videos tu serentak..nampak tak sofea menari ikut rhythm..hehehe

Checkup Adief - 14 weeks

2009-08-11T14:51:00.004+08:00

Last saturday bawak adief pegi amik jab...alamak lupa la jab ape..kena tengok buku dia baru ingat...sejak dah ada anak ni memang cepat betul lupa...tak tau la sebab banyak urat putus (excuse yang selalu bagi kat hubby) or sebab umur dah makin meningkat...hehehe...berat adief dah 6.5kg...his peds memang berpuas hati la...FYI i tak bagi fully breastfeed kat adief..ada campur formula milk...i bagi susu S26Gold..sofea dulu pun i bagi susu tu...walaupun tak bagi fully, i still lagi pump kat office and bagi direct bila balik rumah...

Cerita pasal adief ni nak update sikit progress development dia...adief dah boleh nak capai and grip ape yang dia nak...dah boleh kontrol tangan dia...suka buat gurgle....neck pun dah kuat tapi belum ada tanda-tanda nak turn over...hari tu we all dah cuba masukkan dia dlm bumbo seat...sedompok je tengok dia dalam tu..cute...hehehe..tapi kepala dia dok angguk-angguk, geleng-geleng...so duduk kat kejap je la...overall adief memang good boy sangat...banyak kali dah puji anak sendiri ni..tapi bukan i je cakap camtu..my mother in law pun cakap adief good boy...bayangkan la we all bawak dia pegi wedding, dia senyap je dalam stroller tengok mommy and daddy makan...pastu kalau weekend, lepas mandikan adief biasanya i letak dia atas katil...pastu bila intai balik tengok dah tido anak bujang tu...then ada la dengar dia buat bising, bila gi jenguk tengok dia tido balik...heaven kan...sampai i buat statement berani mati kat my hubby..i cakap kalau dapat anak macam adief, anak 10 orang pun boleh...hahahhaa...pastu hubby sambung, kereta kita muat 7 orang je...hahahahahahah...okaylah...i think tu je la for now...talk to u later...bye

p/s: tetiba rindu pulak kat sofea n adief...

Happy 4th Anniversary

2009-08-06T10:04:00.005+08:00

To my dearest hubby,

It has been 4 wonderful years living with you

Every morning when I watch you sleeping beside me, I'm so grateful

Every night when you kiss my forehead and say I love you, I'm so thankful

Every time when I look at our little angels, I'm so glad that you're the daddy

You're my strength

You're my shoulder to cry on

You're my clown

You're my shelter

You're my heart

You're my soul

You're my sunshine

and You're my bestfriend

Eventhough sometimes you make me sad and angry

I will always love you forever
I'm not a perfect wife

But I know that you love me so much

For better or for worse

Till death do us part

I love you with every single beat of my heart

Thank You Allah for sending Shuzairizman Shuib to be my other half

I wish for a good health for my beloved husband and kids

Happy 4th Anniversary yang...semoga jodoh kita berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat...Aminnn

p/s: hari ni entry jiwang skit;-)

Thumb-sucking

2009-08-05T12:59:00.007+08:00

Hari ni i nak cite sikit pasal my sofea..pagi tadi check email dapat e-newsletter from babycenter..ada article about thumb-sucking...sofea memang suka sgt sucks her thumb since baby lagi...kalau tengok dekat thumb dia tu memang dah berbekas...i pun tak tau la nak buat camne..takkan nak marah2 sampai nak pukul kan..selalu bila dia start masuk thumb dia dalam mulut, i akan remind dia la suruh cabut...memula dia cabut...nanti x sampai seminit dia masuk balik...dia macam terlupa tau...selalunya sofea suka suck thumb dia masa nak tido and tgk tv...risau jugak kan..ramai jugak family yang tegur pasal sofea ni...i pun tak tau nak jwb ape..bukannya kita sesaje bagi jari dia suruh hisap kan...so bila baca article ni lega la sikit..i paste kan article ni kat sini ye..
credit to babycenter.com
1st article
Why children suck their thumbs
Kids suck their thumbs because it's comforting and calming. Your 2-year-old probably practiced this habit while he was still in the womb and perfected it as an infant. Now he turns to his thumb when he's tired, scared, bored, sick, or trying to adjust to challenges such as starting daycare or preschool for the first time or enduring long car rides. He may also use his thumb to fall asleep at bedtime and to lull himself back to slumber when he wakes up in the middle of the night.

What to do about thumb-sucking
Don't worry too much. Although you may fret that thumb-sucking is hurting your 2-year-old's teeth or jaw, children can safely suck their thumbs until age 3 or 4, according to the American Dental Association. Keep in mind, too, that not all thumb-sucking is equally damaging; experts say it's the intensity of the sucking and the tongue's thrust that deforms teeth and makes braces necessary later. Kids who rest their thumbs passively in their mouths are less likely to have difficulty than children who suck aggressively. So watch your child and analyze his technique. If he sucks vigorously, you may want to begin curbing his habit earlier, say when he turns 3.Let it go. Punishing your 2-year-old or nagging him to get his thumb out of his mouth won't help, because he probably doesn't even realize he's doing it. Techniques such as putting elastic bandages on his thumb will seem like unjust punishment, especially since he indulges in the habit for comfort and security. Plus, as is often the case with 2-year-olds, pressuring him to stop may intensify his desire to do it even more. In any event, kids usually give up thumb-sucking when they've found other ways to calm and comfort themselves. If your child tends to suck his thumb when he's hungry, for instance, within a year or two he'll learn to simply open the fridge and look for something to eat, or ask you for a snack instead.Bait and switch. If you can identify times and places when your 2-year-old is particularly likely to suck his thumb — while watching television, for instance — you might try giving him a substitute, such as a rubber ball to squeeze or finger puppets to play with. If he tends to suck his thumb when he's tired, you might consider letting him doze for longer in the afternoon or moving up his bedtime a bit. Or if he turns to his thumb when he's frustrated, help him put his feelings into words. The key is to notice when and where sucking occurs and to divert his attention by offering an alternative. Together, you and your child can find solutions that will — eventually — help him kick the thumb habit.

2nd article
When should my child stop sucking her thumb?
Even with all I've read about thumb-sucking and pacifiers, I just don't know what I should do. My 8-month-old daughter prefers her thumb, but people say a pacifier is better for her. When should she stop sucking her thumb or the pacifier? Is either one a bad habit?
Expert Answers
Suzanne Dixon, pediatrician
Babies use sucking to calm and settle themselves. Thumb-sucking starts before birth (there are pictures taken of fetuses sucking their thumbs in utero)and can be a very helpful way for babies to cope with tension. There are many advantages to allowing children to suck their thumbs rather than a pacifer: Thumbs are always there, don't fall on the floor, aren't tied to children's clothing by potentially dangerous strings that can get caught on things, and are under the baby's own control.Children usually give up thumb-sucking when they develop other ways to calm down and comfort themselves, usually by age 4 to 5, although many children suck their thumbs at night or occasionally, when stresses become too much, for many years beyond that.It's unlikely that your child will continue sucking her pacifier well into the childhood years when it might threaten proper dental development. During the years your child is likely to be using a pacifier, she only has her baby teeth; permanent dentition generally doesn't appear until around age 6.I wouldn't attempt to "break her" of the habit until she's ready to give it up on her own. You're unlikely to be successful, and it will only lead to unnecessary struggles and frustration for both of you. If you decide to restrict her access to a pacifier, help her find her thumb, or offer her a blanket or a soft toy to comfort herself instead.
so pada u all yang face the same problem like me, care to share ur solution..ni i letak beberapa gambar sofea yang tgh sucked her thumb...talk to u later..bye

Tag from puan Nina

2009-08-04T17:07:00.003+08:00

Wah...this is the 1st tag i buat dlm blog ni...ada satu tag i owe kak sally..nanti i carik balik entry tag dia tu...

Apakah perasaan anda?
Perasaan i skang adalah tak sabar2 nak tunggu maghrib...maklum lah tgh gigih ganti puasa..ada 10 hari lagi tau u all...doa kan sempat abiss ye...
other than that, i feel so happy with my life now...i'm complete;-)

Saya tak suka...
kalau i kena sinus..rasa macam nak tertanggal hidung bila bersin2...satu keja pun tak boleh buat...rasa nak baring je..lagi satu benda yg kalau boleh i nak elakkan dr terjadi is jgn la my kids kena apa2 penyakit mcm demam ke...memang rasa tak tentu arah je hidup...risau tak tentu pasal...tapi benda2 tu memang tak boleh nak elakkan...semoga Allah lindungi kami dari sebarang penyakit...aminnnn

Impian saya...
buat masa ni ialah nak duduk landed house...rumahnya dah ada cuma nak pindah bila tu yang tak tau lagi...mintak2 hubby baca la ni...hehhee...banyak dah hint i bagi ni...hope he gets the message...

Haiwan yang saya tak suka...
ni kira haiwan yg selalu i jumpa la ek...jawapannya ialah CICAKKKKKK...i tak tau la nape tapi memang tak boleh la dengan cicak ni...yang pelik tu mata i ni walaupun rabun, cicak yang jauh pun i boleh nampak...hubby dah paham sgt dah dgn i..seb baik dpt suami yang tak geli dengan cicak..kalau tak mati la laki bini panjat kerusi bila nampak cicak...hehehe...pernah sekali tu nampak cicak mati(mati tau...jgn tak tau) kat tangga, tengah sarat2 pregnant tu boleh dukung sofea turun tangga dengan laju sekali...hubby pelik tengok sbb selalu macam lori muatan berat je bila jalan...hahahahha...seb baik tak tergolek..

Harapan saya...
semoga Allah lindungi kami sekeluarga dan orang2 mukmin dari ditimpa mala petaka..aminnnn

Jika masa boleh berputar...
emmm...ape yek...nak gi zaman kanak-kanak kot...nak tengok kartun2 mcm cite transformers, voltron dll so that i boleh eksyen gak dengan hubby yang i pun tau cite2 tu..

Hp saya adalah...
Nokia E71...birthday + anniversary present from hubby last year...this year takleh dah kot bagi hadiah 2 in 1 ni...

Saya pernah bercinta sebanyak...
emm...doesn't matter...yang penting i sangat cintakan hubby i...dauppp...hehehe

Saya suka pada...
handbag yang i bagi link dekat my hubby..tapi dia buat tak tau je...huhuhu..

Kawan2 saya ada...
ramai and i sangat sayang diorang...termasuk la u yang tengah baca tag ni

Pernah dikhianati?
pernah ke ek...rasanya tak pernah kot sebab tak leh nak recall...sentiasa think positive;-)

Apa yang anda mahu lakukan kepada orang yang khianati anda?
no komen...ala2 macam artis jwb...hahahaha...

8 orang yg kena tag.
1) syanasaid
2) kak sally
3) jaja my cousin
4) syiera aka cherating
5) zam aka nzh1979
6) atie
7) zety
8) errynn

tak tau la u all dah buat ke belum...kalau tak buat lagi sila la ye...oklah u all...talk to u later...bye

Alam Budiman

2009-08-03T16:52:00.006+08:00

::home sweet home::

Hi all, saje la nak cite sikit ape aktiviti our family during last weekend...on saturday tu ada wedding..lepas balik wedding tu memang lepak kat rumah je..prepare for dinner...on sunday pulak hubby cakap dia nak pegi cuci rumah...actually we all ada beli rumah kat Alam Budiman, Shah Alam...dapat kunci masa bulan 6...tapi sebabkan belum ada plan nak duduk, so lambat la pegi basuh rumah...so dalam pukul 10am tu hubby dah bersiap2 dgn senjata2 nya ke shah alam...i pulak stayed at home dgn sofea n adief...1st time la kena tinggal bertiga jek...kena mandikan diorg..biasanya hubby mandikan sofea n i pulak mandikan adief...bila dah kena tinggal ni tetiba rasa macam okay jugakkan jaga sofea n adief by myself...kalau tak asyik pikir negatif je...tak yakin dgn diri sendiri..eh..melalut pulak...sambung balik...dalam pukul 1pm tu janji dgn mama n babah(my parents) dtg amik we all...pastu gi visit mai kat hostel...pas dah makan2 kat situ terus shoot ke alam budiman...tengok hubby tengah gigih sorang sapu kat ground floor...dia cakap kat atas dia dah siap mop...kagum betul dengan hubby...dia memang suka wat keja sorang2...dulu masa nak masuk rumah sekarang we all duduk pun dia cat sendiri...sorang2 jugak...hubby i memang rajinnnn sgttt...kena puji lelebih skit sbb anniversary dah nak dekat...hahahaha...takde lah..ni memang ikhlas from the bottom of my heart...so lepak la kat situ sampai pukul 5...rasanya tak boleh la nak tunggu balik dengan hubby sbb kalau sofea ada memang daddy dia tak boleh buat keja...lagipun kipas takde, adief dah berpeluh2...so adief, sofea and me ikut la mama dgn babah balik gombak...hubby amik bila dia dah abiss cuci...bila tgk rumah tu dah bersih lagi meluap2 rasa nak duduk situ...suka sangat rumah tu...tapi apakan daya..office i kat ampang, hubby pulak kat kl...memang jauh la dr shah alam...tapikan ada gak org keja kl tapi duduk seremban kan...hopefully hubby wil consider la staying there...kalau tak memang kena sewa kan la jwbnye...ni ada a few photos yang sempat diambik..pakai camera hp je..x larat nak angkut camera...okaylah...talk to u later...bye

::sofea yang menyibuk::

::dining hall::

::kitchen::

::adief bersantai tgk kakak thofea loncat sane loncat sini..tunggu la adief dah besar::

::tgk la dia..enjoy betul dapat memanjat-manjat::

::Living hall..tak amik pun gambar kat atas...tak larat nak naik tangga...hehehe::

Tudung Ariani Twist

2009-07-31T10:59:00.005+08:00

Entry ni khas untuk kak ain kalau dia baca la...ni lah tudung ariani twist yang saya cakap tu...
gambar 1st ni kalau kita tak tarik belakang dia jadik camtu...
gambar 2nd bila tarik kebelakang dia dah terbentuk kat depan tu mcm scallop;-)
okay abis dah pasal ariani...talk to u later...bye

Mari ber Ariani

2009-07-30T15:20:00.003+08:00

Tajuk dia macam hape je kan...hehehe...ni nak cite pasal tudung sebenarnya...sebelum ni memang selalu dengar pasal tudung Ariani ni...teringin sangat la nak pegi membuat lawatan sambil membeli kat kedai tu...tapi hubby i ni memang tak bape suka nak bwk wifey dia gi kat Jalan Masjid India tu especially time weekend kan...pepaham la keadaan kat situ memang la sesak..dengan susah nak parkingnye kan...tapi ada one day tu we all gi tgk wayang kat CapSquare cite Transformers(sape tau CapSquare angkat tangan...hehehe)..pas je abis tgk ajak la hubby gi Jakel sbb nak beli kain untuk baju raya...so dah alang2 sampai situ ape lagi kan...tak melepaskan peluang la...memula plan nak amik sehelai je...tapi bila dah masuk dalam tu memang boleh meroyannn la...cantik-cantik semua...cara diorg susun tudung2 tu memang memikat pelanggan la...so i nasihatkan sesape yang memang takde niat nak beli jangan la masuk sbb bila masuk mesti beli punya (kalau yang jenis mcm i la...tak tahan godaan...)tapi kalau kuat iman boleh la masuk...lama betul dok bertapa dalam tu...hubby dok kat luar muka bengang jek...hehehe...nasib la kan...sekali sekala...so dapat la 2 helai...oppsss..bukan dapat...beli ye...i memang suka la...walaupun i dah ada banyak yang jenis murah tu tapi memang i suka sgt Ariani punya tudung...ada je alasan kalau bab2 nak buang duit ni kan...tu lah orang pompuan...

nak dipendekkan cite, baru2 ni i ada pegi lagi...sorang-sorang pulak tu...masa tu amik cuti..siap pegi naik lrt tau...gigihkan...bila dah hubby takde sekali ala2 mcm lembu lepas kandang la...amikk ko sampai 4 helai i beli...pastu 2 helai lagi beli untuk my mom and my mother in law...tgh sale...ape salahnye kan...so hari ni i pakai salah satu dr tudung i beli tu...

1st time post gambar muka sendiri kat blog sendiri...malu la...hahaha...poyo betul...oklah..talk to u later...bye

p/s: kak ain, nnt saya pakai yg twist tu saya paste muka kat sini ek..kalau tak cun pun ckp je cun ye;-)

Test Suara

2009-07-30T12:36:00.004+08:00

Hi u all...dah bape hari tak dapat nak update blog...dah ada ciri-ciri nak bersawang kan...hahaha...busy la wat tender...alhamdulillah tender dah siap dihantar tadi...lega rasanya...u all doakan la untuk office i ye...aminnn...

oklah..tak mo la cite pasal tender ni...u all tgk la video adief ni...sekarang ni adief memang suka sangat test suara camtu...sometimes takde orang layan dia pun tetiba dia jerit camtu cakap sorang-sorang...sejak dari lahir kan adief he has been a very good boy...senang sangat nak jaga dia...lately dia bangun sekali je...tu pun i yang angkat dia bagi breastfeed lepas i sahur(maklum la skang i sibuk marathon puasa) so that dia takde la nangis time i tengah solat ke or nak sambung tido....pastu sampai la pukul 7 lebih baru dia menggeliat sikit...mommy sayangggg sgt dekat adief...bila malam pulak before tido dia akan jerit-jerit and ketawa...dengan kipas pun jadik la...heheh...then bila dia dah penat tu dia eh eh skit...i pun bagi bfeed terus dia tido...senang kan??agak-agak boleh tambah lagi sorang ni....hahahahahhaha...tersedak hubby i...but i think not now la...skang tengah operasi nak lose weight;-)
oklah...talk to u later...bye

Agak busy

2009-07-27T15:43:00.003+08:00

Hari ni agak busy skit sebab kena buat tender...pagi tadi bos baru bagi..dateline 30/7/09 pulak tu..kalau tetiba je buntu tu i update blog ye...banyak nak sembang2 dalam ni dengan u all...talk to u later..bye

Clip video sofea and adief

2009-07-22T14:51:00.004+08:00

Dear all, ni ada clip video adief dgn sofea...adief tu record masa dalam kereta nak pegi wedding hubby's cousin...sekarang memang adief suka sgt berborak...kita cakap je dgn dia sure dia terus respon...seronok sangat...memang hilang la penat lelah kita satu hari tu...

video sofea pulak record masa pegi kat AEON au2...dia memang suka betul main benda alah tu...kalau nampak tempat yang ada slide lagi la dia suka...ada la a few times bagi dia main kat theme park dalam jusco tu...ok jugak diorg wat camtu..daddy boleh tunggu sofea and mommy window shopping sambil tolak adief dalam stroller...hehehe..bijak bijak..oklah..enjoyyyy...talk to u later...bye

Puasa ganti

2009-07-21T17:18:00.003+08:00

photo credit to : norlirazali.com
Hi all...kalau u all nak tau, skang ni i memang tengah gigih mengganti puasa tau...last Ramadhan memang bulan yang paling mencabar sebab i baru je 2 or 3 mths pregnant...mabuk memang toksah kata la...sampai kurus2 la badan i ni...masa pregnant kan sofea pun memang mabuk teruk jugak...memang tak larat la...so nak dijadikan cerita i telah kantoi puasa sebanyak 28 hari tau...cuma dapat puasa 2 hari je...tu pun elok je dpt puasa terus admitted...maknenye 2 kali la i kena dok kat APSH tu masa bulan puasa...masa tu kesian sangat dekat hubby...penat2 pun dtg visit i bawak sofea...i love u yang;-) tetiba je kan...hehehe...oklah insyaAllah kalau habis hari ni tinggal lagi 17 hari...i dah kira2 at least seminggu kena puasa 4 hari dgn syarat itu cik P tak datang la...kalau tidak terpaksa la bayar fidyah..huhu...doakan i berjaya ganti puasa ye...kepada yang gigih tgh mengganti tu selamat berpuasa:-) talk to u later..bye

Update on Adief

2009-07-20T16:52:00.004+08:00

Hari ni genap la umur buah hati pengarang jantung i yg no 2..his fullname is Adief Shafiy...sekarang ni adief dah pandai:

- senyum, tersengih, ketawa

- respon kalau kita borak2 dgn dia

- tangan dah boleh genggam kuat tapi still tak pandai kontrol lagi

- dah pandai sepak2 toy yang tergantung2

Adief - 1st day

Tak sabar nak tunggu adief besar..nanti adief boleh main dgn kakak thofea ye...sekarang ni adief minum BM dan FM...before one month memang banya bagi BM je tapi sebabkan berat adief tak memuaskan, his PAED advice to top up more FM...so last timbang berat masa umur adief 2bln setengah 5.5kg...alhamdulillah...PAED pun dah berpuas hati dengan berat adief sekarang...kalau tak dulu kudut je anak mommy n daddy ni..sekarang boleh tahan gak la montel macam kakak sofea...

Dear Adief, mommy harap adief akan menjadi anak yang soleh, bertanggungjawab, bijak dan berjaya di dunia dan di akhirat...aminnn...mommy n daddy love you!

okaylah...stop dulu...talk to u later...bye

Adief - 3 months old

Update on sofea

2009-07-20T11:27:00.000+08:00

Entry kali ni nak cite sikit update on my 1st buah hati pengarang jantung...her fullname is Adriana Sofea...we call her sofea..dia pulak bahasakan diri dia thofea...hehehe...umur sofea sekarang ni 2thn 5bln..dah besa dah dia...kalau ikutkan dah byk sgt yg dia pandai buat...
dari segi fizikal progress, dia dah boleh memanjat, berlari, melompat and so on...kalau bawak dia pegi playground memang dia happy sgt la sebab boleh buat semua aktiviti...tak padan dgn girl...
kalau dari segi vocab pun byk sgt progress...memang dah macam org besa cakap la..antaranya:
- one, two, three till ten
- kenal certain huruf..byk yg dia kenal dari yg dia tak kenal...
- suka menyanyi lagu2 yang dia dgr dr cite barney, mickey mouse clubhouse, playhouse channel
- sometimes dgr dia cakap sorang2 ajuk balik dialog dr cerita2 yg dia tgk
- thank you, i'm sorry, are u okay, what u doing...
- kenal shapes : triangle, circle, square, star, rectangle(ni yg paling latest)
- kenal colors : kuning, biru, merah, hijau, purple, orange, pink (separuh malay, separuh english..hehehe)
banyak lagi la..kalau nak list kan satu2 memang tak ingat sangat la..insyaAllah next year nak masukkan dia playschool so that dia boleh bersosial and belajar lagi..

dear sofea, mommy harap sofea akan menjadi anak yang solehah, baik dan bijak ye...semoga berjaya di dunia dan di akhirat...aminn..mommy n daddy sayang sgt sofea...muahhh..
ok lah..talk to u later...bye

Intro entry

2009-07-17T18:02:00.000+08:00

This is my 1st entry..saje je nak start my own blog so boleh la mengisi masa lapang sambil share stories with you and make new friends..jgn berhabuk lama sangat sudah...wait for my next entry ok...talk to u later...bye